He' not married, let him live. I'm sure all the women in question here have plenty of testosterone all over them 24x7 that these guys have to "put up with..." So in JM's case, the girl can let them live his life or fall back out of the spotlight that JM's talent has indirectly pointed her way recently. It's not like either will be hurting for a date!
That being said, perhaps both women love it... Anybody ask them? Not all women are helicopter wives/girlfriends!