now I have worked with plenty of people over the years that probably never deserve a tip
9 times out of 10 though...you're either dealing with someone completely incompetent who is trying but is just not able to handle it (which is totally perplexing to me) or someone who has such horrible personal issues going on that they just cannot concentrate on doing their jobs. Or you get good service.
1 time out of 10 you get that true asshole who is a shitty server just to be a shitty server and doesn't give a **** what you think.
So the next time you are rude to a server or call over management or are just pissed off...just realize you're probably...
A) Way better off than them
B) They probably aren't doing it on purpose and
C) Be appreciative for A
because no matter what issues you are facing, every time you get piss poor service from some moron who can't even handle waiting tables...just realize it could always be worse!
and I'm not bashing waiters/waitresses/bartenders...I respect the hell out of the good ones and you can make a shit ton of money doing it...
I am bashing the ones in society who can't even handle waiting freaking tables. Effort and a pinch of common sense is all it takes. You don't have those two things then you are truly ****ed.