let me derail your entire thread
how does one go about going on a date these days, anyways? I always meet girls/girlfriends at bars...
I wouldn't have the slightest clue on how to ask someone out.
"Hey uh, you're super cute, wanna go to dinner some time?"
I honestly have never done that in my life. If I quit drinking/quit going to bars, I don't think I'd ever have sex again.