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Originally Posted by Ecto-I
Ok...gonna throw this out there.
In my 29 years of life I've either been the guy that casually dates a lot of girls, but when I get into a relationship, its VERY fast. Like my last GF and I spent every day together after our first date.
So now, I've been dating a girl for about 3.5 weeks. We see each other like once or sometimes twice per week. We had sex for the first time last week. Now I really like this chick so I'm thinking "Yay! Ecto will get to see her like a lot more than once or twice per week!"
Au Contraire. She's still a bit aloof and confining me to the 1-2 hangouts per. So here's my question....
What is normal dating frequency for a 3.5 week relationship and for how long? I'm obviously used to very fast relationships which may not be normal or healthy which is why this feels soooo slow for me!
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That seems normal for a chick that knows what she wants.. If you want to surprise her and she gets defensive, then shes banging some other dude at the same time.. But more then likely she is moving it slow.. If you would of knocked her socks off, then she would of increased it.. ;D