I talk/see my mom once a year...maybe if that.
she bailed once my old man paid for her degree and she started making coin. meanwhile, old man was working 60+ hrs a week for 5+ years to make ends meet.
don't care if I ever see her again, really. My step-mom has been 1000 times tha mom my really 'mom' has. plus, my real mom is batshit nuts. 10 different personalities. etc. for real.
Life is 99% inspiration, 1% Perspiration, and 1% Attention to Detial.