Originally Posted by Clayton Bibsby
Ok I have a question. If you were dating some chick and you went to her house and proceeded to use her dad's grill without asking. Is that disrespectful? You aren't engaged or anything, just boyfriend and girlfriend. Because this is happening right now and I asked my sister if her boyfriend asked my dad if he could use his grill and she got all defensive and won't talk to me. But honestly this dude isn't even family, and considering how men feel about their grills, I'd say you don't just use it without asking. I'm just baffled at how she would get angry at me, her own blood, for saying something against some dude who may or may not work out. I feel like I'm in the right. What do you guys think? Even though my dad probably wouldn't mind, it's still respectful to ask before using something that isn't his.
1. Did he ask her?
2. Does she live there?
Actually, neither would matter. When I was staying with my dad, I respected the fact that it was his place. If I planned on having more than one person over to go swimming, I would check with him first. I definitely wouldn't ever use his grill, let alone let someone else use his grill, without asking him first.