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Originally Posted by Rain Man
It seems to me like he shouldn't push you out of your own family. Just go and keep your distance from him. Your mother will eventually have to be the one who makes the final call on the guy, and you can't control that.
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Originally Posted by Dartgod
Are you?
I don't know what your relationship with your mom is like, but if you are really "there for her" then you should be there.
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Originally Posted by C-Mac
This.
Showing respect to your mom is also respecting your principles.
Lack of self control or allowing him to get between you and your mom would not be respecting your principles.
You can always excuse yourself and just leave if an issue arises.
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Originally Posted by patteeu
I like this approach best of the ones posted so far. As long as your mother wants him there, I don't know why you (tooge, not Rain Man) think it's a good thing to put her in a position of having to choose between the two of you.
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It depends on your relationship with your mom. Are you prepared to just stay away from her if she get's back together with the guy? If not, the guys I've quoted above are spot on.