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Originally Posted by Codered
If you do decide to approach her about the unkind texts then starting off by telling her you understand your actions of snooping isn't appropriate and explain why you felt you need to.
This won't make it any easier, but it may allow you then to bring up the bigger issue. Her feelings for your family.
Good luck this could very well test your relationship. If you have to snoop around and she has to lie then there are apparently deeper issues going on.
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This and keep her on topic. When she, undoubtedly, tries to veer the conversation onto your snooping just tell her, "We will get to that in a second," and reiterate your question. Once she explains her side of the story and you feel you two are on common ground with that issue, prepare for her to be as judgmental about your snooping as you were about what you found. Hope it works out for you man.