I've intentionally not read the other responses to be unbiased with my remarks.
First off is this a disposable relationship?
If it is not disposable how badly do you want this to work?
In todays world it looks like most marriages are just temporary. The divorce rate (disposal) is climbing every year.
If it were me I'd take as much time as I could to make sure this was a life mate and not just another ride in the sack.
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