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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP
Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up.
When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye.
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There was a time when I thought that 2 people could still remain friends after a break up. I don't view it that way anymore though. The animosity that's created by a break up can be too much to overlook in order to make a friendship work.
Of course, if there are children involved, it makes things more difficult. You will see each other a lot and need to remain civil for the sake of the children.
Ending a marriage is way more difficult than just a b/f-g/f breaking up, too. There is so much legal crap to deal with and that only makes matters worse. It leads to both people in the marriage worrying about what the other one plans to say/do in front of the courts. You definitely find out who you really were married to when a divorce happens though.