I actively work to separate the bolded from my home life.
Right now it's not feasible to build my own. But here would be some characteristics:
Shitloads of open space with high ceilings.
Insulation in all of the interior walls.
Pissloads of circuits and outlets everywhere.
Efficient plumbing with no ****ing copper pipes!
No carpet.
Lots of light fixtures. I hate those ****ing 1 bulb boob lights.
No doors narrower than 36"
Shallow, wide staircases.
Huge amounts of insulation in every exterior wall.
Lots of storage in cabinets and shelving.
Ceiling fan in each room.
Huge garage. 3 car minimum. With wide doors. For every stall there should be an extra stall space for extra storage.
Exterior.
Efficient water usage landscaping while being low maintinence.
Fence.
3' sidewalk around the house. (Watershed)
Stucco.
Kickass windows.