I think the thing being lost here is that in-law relationships vary widely.
Some people may find themselves spending many weekdays/weekends around their in-laws, while others may only interact with in-laws on a few occasions per year. That plays a big part in how bit of a deal it is that she doesn't like them. If she hates them, but only has to put on a friendly front 4 times per year, is it really going to impact the relationship?
Clearly everyone is adding their opinion based on personal experience, which may or may not mirror their situation.
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