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Originally Posted by crazycoffey
Me too, I live in a different state now, but I am still very active in their lives. As they grow, I will make random trips, I will keep making contact with their teachers, and while I don't particularly like their mother, I also know she has their best interest at heart and is a good - hands on parent.
I am not going to put a "chip" in them just to give me a false sense of security. Parenting is work, there are not short cuts in it, even as divorced fathers. The road is longer and harder, but if you walk the road one step at a time you will get to the top. The "chip" is like asking scotty to beam you up, it doesn't work that way.
BTW, being worried is normal. But you can only control so much.
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I agree with what you say. Though I don't have faith that their mother has their best interests at heart. She is a very selfish human being and constantly puts herself first. I don't doubt her love for our kids, but she does put herself first.
I would have to think long and hard before I went this route. This world gets more frightening every day.