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Originally Posted by DJ's left nut

Y'know, that's a really fair point.

When I was 18, I got in a argument with my girlfriend. I hung up, walked past my folks, went upstairs, walked calmly into my room and put my fist through the drywall. Really stupid, could've broken my hand had a stud been there. I was young, I was an idiot...but so was Belcher when the college incident happened.

But shit man, I've only ever hit another human being once in my life. I've never so much as contemplated getting physical with a woman (in fact, married the same girl and we've been married for 7 years).

I hadn't thought about it, but you're right. It's really unfair to try to hang that incident around his neck now. Some people have a temper - but it doesn't mean they're violent. Apart from this incident, we just don't see any indication that Belcher has shown a 'violent' streak. Just the same idiot young kid temper that a lot of us had in our youth.

Well I have hit a lot of human beings in my life in the younger years. I definately had some rage issues. With women I have never been that angry at one but I have friends who are in relationships with women that just want to push and will do anything to them. In relationships I think you have to be ready to walk even with kids if the behavior is bad. For the life of me I have no idea why guys stay in those relationships. I am not saying that is what happened here, I'm just saying. It also annoys me that when guys get pushed over the edge the woman always gets societies vicitim pass. These things are rarely one sided, one time issues. Once again I am not justifying anything or saying that was the case here just making a casual observation about domestic altercations in general.