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Originally Posted by AndChiefs
So I imagine I'll regret this...but...I met a girl at a Halloween party over the weekend but she left a bit early and I was unable to get her number before she left.
I reached out to a mutual friend who I got her number from. I'm going to ask her out either way but obviously it's a bit odd to have someone randomly call you when you didn't give them your number.
So my options:
1. Call her and ask her out. Could put extra pressure on her to say yes when she doesn't really want to. Positive is it will be viewed as a more assertive option over texting.
2. Text her and ask her out. Less assertive, less pressure on her.
I'm leaning towards calling but wanted some further opinions in case I'm missing something.
If we have a female that actually reads this thread your opinion is obviously welcomed. (KCGal?)
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Call her. If she doesn't answer leave a message telling her how you got her number, when you met, and you'd like to see her again. Tell her to text you if she's interested that way it's not awkward for either of you if she doesn't.
Calling tells me you're really interested if you're willing to hunt down my number and call so I most likely going to check you out.