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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini
Why?
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I should probably rephrase my answer. I don’t believe that ALL nice guys finish last, but sadly, some do. It depends on the situation, though.
For example:
Let’s say that you’re an average looking guy and you really like a chick that you consider to be “out of your league”, (btw, I hate that phrase, but I‘ll use it here for descriptive purposes). You’re always nice to her and she considers you to be a good friend. Sadly, you notice that she seems to only be interested in dating egotistical douchebags that treat her like shit. So, you choose not to pursue because you feel that you‘re not her type and you fear that you’ll be rejected. “Nice guy” finishes last in that scenario.
What “nice guy” doesn’t realize is that most, (but not all), women eventually get tired of “not-so-nice guy” and wish to find a “nice guy”. However, the problem with most “nice guys” is that they lack confidence, thus they’re not assertive enough to approach “out of their league“ chick.
It’s all about men having confidence, timing, and if the chemistry is right with the chick.