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Originally Posted by Bugeater
Oh my...this is disturbing. Sounds like you're about to embark on the same battle I've been fighting for the last 5 years. It's bad enough now that my 19 year marriage is in great jeopardy of not making it to 20. Hope it goes better for you than it did for me.
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Huge issue which if you see from the child perspective adds up to inconsistent messages and unclear boundaries. We have all been there at one time or another. It is easy to blame the kid when this happens but many times they are just a symptom of a bigger problem.
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