gochiefs -
My best friend has a similar problem to you. (Although a much more watered down version.)
He's 28 and a few months ago had his first real girlfriend. He's got no excuses either. There's nothing that wrong with him, but for some reason he just views himself as a goof and has a completely unreasonable fear of rejection when it comes to females.
I can remember in high school practically kicking his ass and ordering him to ask out the girl he took to the prom.
Anyway, I don't guess this has much relevance. I think the biggest thing is that people like my friend and you have no idea how much you sell yourselves short.
Trust me, somewhere out there is a guy twice as nerdy as you that is making friends, and going on dates.
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