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Originally Posted by Dave Lane
It's funny, women are absolutely the worst at understanding attraction in themselves. It's like a giant blind spot. Maybe because they attribute it to "feelings" and not logic.
Once you understand the science of attraction its easy to create in a woman. Not every woman reacts the same way to every situation but at a deep core level women are very easy to understand and manipulate if desired.
All the mentioned items can be critical, looks, humor, confidence, status (real or imagined) and a host of others. But strictly having these will not ensure attraction.
Buck is a lost soul, this girl already has him totally wrapped around her finger and frankly his expectations are going to be impossible to live up to. The crash and burn has all the makings of being epic.
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Men are visually stimulated, women are not. Women want men who meet their needs. Guys are shallow enough to mistake that for being something strictly financial. Women want to feel special, wanted, appreciated, and accepted. That's our core. I'm not saying attraction isn't important. I'm just saying that maybe, when you see a "hot" chick with an "ugly" guy, it may not be because he has money. He's simply meeting her needs. Just like everything, there are always exceptions to those rules.