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Originally Posted by Prison Bitch
My kids know they have an honest father, not a fluffer like you.
I enjoy my kids much better now that they're older. But I point out to expecting fathers the reality of the situation so they don't feel guilty about the feelings they are going to experience. It's really hard for men and women to become 1st time parents. Honesty is a good thing - you should try it sometime.
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I think you point out to expecting fathers those things that YOU feel so that YOU will not feel guilty. As for me, I am an honest person. And honestly I think you're a douche. I didn't fluff anything. Anyone who knows me knows that is the way I am. And I'm not a BSer. I'm a straight shooter. Always have been. My kids know that I love them, I'm honest and fair with them, and that I would do anything for them to have a good life. I didn't say anything about not making sacrifices. Sacrifices are part of having kids or being married. But that doesn't mean they are as bad as you make it sound.
Again, you didn't mention anything about the positives. To me, the positives far outweigh the negatives. I have a video of my oldest when he was 4 years old. I interviewed all of my kids in this same way when they were little. And I'm so glad I did because it is something that is way more valuable to me now than things like having a pristine house or a huge bank account. It is just me talking to him for about 20-30 minutes. But that is something that you can't buy.