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Originally Posted by Rausch
Don't be shocked when things change. You're about to dedicate your life to someone who doesn't think like you, act like you, or dream like you, no matter how much you think you know them.
Your hormones, organs, and experiences make you worlds different. Now that "PERMANENT" is what he he (and you) will be thinking about for weeks afterwards be sure to be patient. You can say "Oh, I know him/her and things won't be different" but that's n00b talk. Different doesn't have to be bad, but it will if you aren't prepared or willing to work out what will be a change.
You've just dedicated your lives to each other. How could you not feel changed? It's the type of thing women dream about and you don't expect to feel or act different afterwards?
I'll always recomend staying single and cutting off the reproductive onramp to babytown over a ring, but if you won't listen to reason, remember what's above...
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Thank you. That's very sound advice. I absolutely expect changes....as we change and grow as individuals we need to take care that our relationship grows as well. We've lived together for four years now, but I know that with even that much history becoming Mr. and Mrs. will inevitably change us. I'm looking forward to the next step of our lives together.