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If your attorney wanted more money, he would tell you how tough this case was going to get and how much more research, filings, etc would be involved.

All other things being equal, it seems unlikely that a judge would want to send middle and high school age children to a new school.

Even less likely that the judge would be OK sending them to a different state and jurisdiction after she has been married for a couple months. Does she have employment there? Is the whole family going to be living on E-3 wages?

Kids don't get to pick who they want to live with. But the older the child, the better they are able to explain to the Court why they want to live one place or the other. "All my friends live here, I've been involved in orchestra at school for the last three years, I've attended Church at First Christian since I was little...." You get the picture.