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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP
Kudos on the successful date(s) with a cool chick.
However, it's too soon to bring up exclusivity, brah. If she brings it up and you feel the same, fine. However, for you to bring it up after 3 dates is just too early. You may end up pushing her away. Keep doing your thing (you shouldn't be exclusive if she isn't) and let her keep doing hers. If it continues on the right path then you can bring it up at a later date.
For example, I've been talking/dating to a girl for about a month now. We've gone on 3 official dates. There's no way in hell I'm bringing up exclusivity yet (and to be honest, I'm not quite there yet).
If it's right you'll both get there. At less than a month in and 3 dates you don't want to force the issue.
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Fair enough. I'm going out of town for a bit over a week next Tuesday, so we'll see how she responds to that.