Fly,
Don't alienate her. You can't control her the way you are trying to. I think you'd be best not allowing these things to bother you because it's just going to cause her to rebel. You're screwed either way but you can't keep her from seeing a boyfriend. That just strengthens their bond and weakens whatever is left of what you had with your daughter. Don't make any situation seem hopeless to a child because they will take drastic action. Sometimes even hurting themselves. Dude - I said it the last time and I'll say it now - you and your family need professional help. Get some, soon!
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