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It is about confidence. People tend to see you how you see yourself. So if you think somebody is out of your league, odds are they'll end up thinking that too. The trick is carrying yourself how you want people to see you. Because nobody is going to rescue you, nobody is going to "see you for how special you really are", nobody is going to look past your nice but homely exterior to find the gem inside. It doesn't work that way. And it's not their fault. It's how you carry yourself.
Ironically I know this but I can't actually do it myself. But I have gotten past the point of blaming anybody else for the way I see me.
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