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I'm cohabitating... would appreciate any advice.
Well I did the dumbest ****ing thing possible and fell in love with someone.
Now we're making plans to move in together sometime this coming fall. She's lived with a significant other before, but this is the first time I've ever done it. So considering how green I am to the whole process, I'd appreciate the ironclad braintrust at the Planet to provide me with advice (preferably from experience) so I don't walk into bear trap after bear trap throughout this ordeal. Thanks in advance. |
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05-02-2008, 09:17 AM | #2 |
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Just say no..... give her a drawer, little closet space, toothbrush....
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make sure she knows to raise the seat back up after she's finished.
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05-02-2008, 09:18 AM | #4 |
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05-02-2008, 09:18 AM | #5 |
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Don't.
Basically, she will take over your place and you have only yourself to blame. Plus, you cannot ask her to leave post-lovin or post-argument.
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05-02-2008, 09:19 AM | #6 |
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I'll be doing the same thing as you.....but further down the road.
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05-02-2008, 09:21 AM | #7 |
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Make sure she signs up for her own ChiefsPlanet user account.
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05-02-2008, 09:22 AM | #8 |
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What ever you do, never come home and say "honey, your breath smells like pure ass."
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05-02-2008, 09:24 AM | #9 |
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Why are you doing this?
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05-02-2008, 09:28 AM | #10 |
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05-02-2008, 09:20 AM | #11 |
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Best advice I have for you is don't ask for love life advise on the Planet.
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05-02-2008, 09:21 AM | #12 |
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Why its a bad idea Consider the following excerpts from various studies:
Only one couple in five who lives together before marriage actually ends up getting married. Not to mention its a mortal sin (6th commandment) which leads to damnation.
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Those two people will work hard to learn how to have a healthy relationship, no matter what religion dictates, or scholars study. Picking the right person for you is critical and it takes time and a personal willingness to be open and honest about who you are, where you are in your life and what your expectations in a relationship are. And most importantly, it requires a willingness to be alone as you take a pass on one wrong person after another. Neediness and desperation, even if only a little, cause so many people to jump into this or that relationship, and hoping it will work out this time. For me, the right person, seperated herself from everyone else I had dated in such a completely obvious way that it was easy. I can't speak for all relationships and all people, but my experience tells me that if you have doubts, it's probably not the right situation at the right time. |
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