Life Question about my new town

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:24 PM

Hey gang. So here's my story. I recently moved to Sioux City, IA for my job. The tough thing, as many of you know, about moving to a new town is making new friends. The first few months of living here I was able to visit college friends nearby and was content. But now, its summer and they're all gone.

In an attempt to make friends I've joined a gym, started going to church again, tried going to bars, and tried hanging out at hip places like coffee shops for long periods of time. Tried going to Target, WalMart, etc. and striking up a conversation, but I get the "mind your own goddamn business" look.

I think the gym still holds promise, as does church. Bars, however, going solo without any friends just seems weird. When talking to guys, they won't give me the time of day (I think mostly because they're too focused on trying to get some or slummin with the frat buddies) and with the girls they just take it as I'm hitting on them (ok, ok, I was.)

Funny thing is, I don't consider myself socially awkward or anything. I'm a perfectly normal, decently good-looking, gainfully employed, 23 year old guy. I've had no problems meeting people in other places. Even abroad, its been easy (I think because people are always interested in the American, so having that as a prop helps).

I'm not asking for advice to get laid or anything. But just plain making friends would be nice. Any thoughts or advice?

**Shogun** · 05-26-2013, 08:26 PM

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=making+friends+in+sioux+city

**Shogun** · 05-26-2013, 08:29 PM

Or I hear lately Blackpeoplemeet.com has been a hit.

Red Beans · 05-26-2013, 08:36 PM

My wife's from Sioux City. Not much going on up there in my opinion. I'd just start drinking heavily. I could also get send you the contact information of my wife's two, whore ass sisters. Lot's of fun those two, let me ****ing tell you. Actually, if I had to move to Sioux City, I'd start looking for another job.

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Red Beans

My wife's from Sioux City. Not much going on up there in my opinion. I'd just start drinking heavily. I could also get send you the contact information of my wife's two, whore ass sisters. Lot's of fun those two, let me ****ing tell you. Actually, if I had to move to Sioux City, I'd start looking for another job.

If they're not 45 year old crack whores I'd give it some consideration.

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Red Beans

My wife's from Sioux City. Not much going on up there in my opinion. I'd just start drinking heavily. I could also get send you the contact information of my wife's two, whore ass sisters. Lot's of fun those two, let me ****ing tell you. Actually, if I had to move to Sioux City, I'd start looking for another job.

When I was in college I actually went to a derby between Omaha and Sioux City. That was some entertainment...

Mr_Tomahawk · 05-26-2013, 08:40 PM

Sioux City?

That sucks. Well...maybe; where did you move from...?

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr_Tomahawk

Sioux City?

That sucks. Well...maybe; where did you move from...?

Moved from farm town SW Iowa. So this is quite a bit bigger. Not like I'm "lost in the big city" or anything. I'm sure there's cool people out there.

Jewish Rabbi · 05-26-2013, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Cornstock

Moved from farm town SW Iowa. So this is quite a bit bigger. Not like I'm "lost in the big city" or anything. I'm sure there's cool people out there.

Where at? I'm from farm town SW Iowa.

Mr_Tomahawk · 05-26-2013, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

Where at? I'm from farm town SW Iowa.

Doesnt exist on google maps.

Were you the only person that lived there...?

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

Where at? I'm from farm town SW Iowa.

PMed you

Fairplay · 05-26-2013, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

Where at? I'm from farm town SW Iowa.

I knew something was wrong with you JR

**LoneWolf** · 05-26-2013, 08:43 PM

Start at work. There has to be someone at work that you could hang out with that us from that area. They could take you out for drinks, introduce you to some locals, and presto you have friends in IA.

Fairplay · 05-26-2013, 08:46 PM

Walk around with a corn shuck in your mouth, a nascar hat and some chew in your mouth. That will get you started.

Cornstock · 05-26-2013, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by LoneWolf

Start at work. There has to be someone at work that you could hang out with that us from that area. They could take you out for drinks, introduce you to some locals, and presto you have friends in IA.

The problem with that is almost everyone in the organization is within 3 years of retirement. That's the whole reason I was brought in, as part of the succession plan. I'm the youngest of the lot by about 15 years. So my coworkers aren't exactly the type of people I would hang out with.

05-26-2013, 08:24 PM	Topic Starter
Cornstock Veteran Join Date: Oct 2008 Casino cash: $9986835	Question about my new town Hey gang. So here's my story. I recently moved to Sioux City, IA for my job. The tough thing, as many of you know, about moving to a new town is making new friends. The first few months of living here I was able to visit college friends nearby and was content. But now, its summer and they're all gone. In an attempt to make friends I've joined a gym, started going to church again, tried going to bars, and tried hanging out at hip places like coffee shops for long periods of time. Tried going to Target, WalMart, etc. and striking up a conversation, but I get the "mind your own goddamn business" look. I think the gym still holds promise, as does church. Bars, however, going solo without any friends just seems weird. When talking to guys, they won't give me the time of day (I think mostly because they're too focused on trying to get some or slummin with the frat buddies) and with the girls they just take it as I'm hitting on them (ok, ok, I was.) Funny thing is, I don't consider myself socially awkward or anything. I'm a perfectly normal, decently good-looking, gainfully employed, 23 year old guy. I've had no problems meeting people in other places. Even abroad, its been easy (I think because people are always interested in the American, so having that as a prop helps). I'm not asking for advice to get laid or anything. But just plain making friends would be nice. Any thoughts or advice?
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05-26-2013, 08:36 PM	#4
Red Beans Not dead yet... Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Indian Creek Casino cash: $1679903	My wife's from Sioux City. Not much going on up there in my opinion. I'd just start drinking heavily. I could also get send you the contact information of my wife's two, whore ass sisters. Lot's of fun those two, let me ****ing tell you. Actually, if I had to move to Sioux City, I'd start looking for another job.
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05-26-2013, 08:40 PM	#7
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LoneWolf Constable of Untruths Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Wichita Casino cash: $-798916	Start at work. There has to be someone at work that you could hang out with that us from that area. They could take you out for drinks, introduce you to some locals, and presto you have friends in IA.
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05-26-2013, 08:46 PM	#14
Fairplay A certain set of skills Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: texas Casino cash: $10026683 VARSITY	Walk around with a corn shuck in your mouth, a nascar hat and some chew in your mouth. That will get you started.
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