Life Signs of attraction - Page 9

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:03 AM

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.

So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

Simplex3 · 04-27-2005, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by 4th and Long

Post the pics, beotch!

Why, they aren't of the guy, er, "girl" he was chatting with...

munkey · 04-27-2005, 03:16 PM

You've never seen Spinal Tap have you?

4th and Long · 04-27-2005, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

As soon as everyone's read the chat log.

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:17 PM

Still reading, but, I probably wouldn't have gone into this:

Quote:

bfett81: my family all went up to missouri
bfett81: i decided not to join them
GirlUsed: awww
GirlUsed: you stayed home alone?
bfett81: well i dont really like dad's side of the family all that much
GirlUsed: oh
bfett81: their like strangers to me
bfett81: i hardly knew them growing up

It's a bit too "I want you to be my friend and console me," as opposed to, "I want to hump your brains out."

To your credit, you got off it pretty fast with the "bfett81: its not a big deal lol".

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

I'm not really sure what happened here, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't good for you.

Why? She didn't like rap.

4th and Long · 04-27-2005, 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simplex3

Why, they aren't of the guy, er, "girl" he was chatting with...

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:18 PM

Quote:

bfett81: jeez
bfett81: i LOVE redheads
GirlUsed: awww
GirlUsed: finally!
GirlUsed: its red now, i havent dyed it in forever
bfett81: redheads > brunettes > blondes

Don't get so excited. Tell them you think they look good, but don't overdo it. Saying, "OH MY GOD YOU ARE SO HOT I LOVE REDHEADS" makes you sound desperate (which you are, but don't let them know that).

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

Get some. Not having pictures of yourself when chatting online is like not having a baseball bat when you step up to the plate.

I have some now...this chat is from months ago.

**Donger** · 04-27-2005, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gochiefs

Why? She didn't like rap.

May I offer some advice?

Some gals may not take too well to the euphemism, "Draining the lizard."

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:19 PM

Quote:

bfett81: i think you look better with less makeup

That's kind of risky. I know you were trying to be nice, but you never know how they're going to react to something like that. I'd avoid it. Looks like it worked out okay for you i this case, though.

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:20 PM

Quote:

bfett81: you have nice eyes
bfett81: *cough* cliche
GirlUsed: lol thanks

At least you know it was a cliche. I'd probably think of something else to say, even if you did really like her eyes.

Simplex3 · 04-27-2005, 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 4th and Long

How many good looking young chicks are Internet dating AND don't have a schlong?

Best case scenario she probably has some pretty serious emotional issues, after all she is still living at home and making liquor runs FOR HER PARENTS...

Of course we are talking about goatcheese here...

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:22 PM

Quote:

bfett81: do you have gmail?
GirlUsed: no
GirlUsed: and hey im allison
bfett81: its a google email account with a gigabyte of storage
bfett81: and hey im clay
GirlUsed: :-)
bfett81: you can only get one through invite
bfett81: so if you want one just say so
GirlUsed: i dont even know what a gigabyte is
GirlUsed: im pretty computer stupid
bfett81: one thousand megabytes
bfett81: its searchable too, so you can find old emails
bfett81: basically you never have to delete anything

And you thought the orchestral soundtracks were a nerd alert? Stay off of the gmail talk, man. It's not very much of an aphrodisiac.

Also, get the introductions out of the way a long time before this point.

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 03:23 PM

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bfett81: draining the lizard

Oh man. You are hopeless.

Say this to your wife after 30 years of marriage, not to a girl you're trying to pick up on!

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jcroft

And you thought the orchestral soundtracks were a nerd alert? Stay off of the gmail talk, man. It's not very much of an aphrodisiac.

Also, get the introductions out of the way a long time before this point.

If she's not interested in me because of those things, I didn't need her shallow ass anyway.

04-27-2005, 11:03 AM
Rain Man Seize life. Be an ermine. Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: My house Casino cash: $-452449 VARSITY	Signs of attraction Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you. http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428 Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you By Matt Christensen You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one. Clue #1: She’s all decked out What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman. Clue #2: She licks her lips What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.” Clue #3: She tosses her hair What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.” Clue #4: Her feet face you What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.” Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t. Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer. So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them. I'll start. 1. We keep adjusting our pants. 2. We take off our pants. 3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up. 4. We try to lick your lips.
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