Tank Johnson funny story

so on xmas day I went over to my gf's house to eat and bullshit with her family. my gf has 2 cousins that are mixed (black & white) and they are there. we are watching a game on tv and somehow tank johnsons name comes up and this one guy, DONNIE, just drops the n bomb saying "that tank johnson is a dumb nig$#&, with his dreads and guns, just a stupid nig$%#" this was right in front of the mixed kids. donnie kind of just had this I don't know where I am look on his face. probably one of the most uncomfortable moments in my life. it was just wrong.....