Signs of attraction

[Rain Man]

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.


So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

[Donger]

Originally Posted by Phobia

That's all well and good, but how can you tell if a pidgeon toed gal likes you?

Hell, even I can interpret a good Donger squeeze as, "Hi. I'm attracted to you."

[Otter]

Originally Posted by BobChief

It's usually an even better sign when they're facing the ceiling.

Is this still a good sign when it's due to rigamortus?

[chiefs4me]

number 3 is a lie.....my damn hair is long and gets in my way all the time. I am constantly tossing and flipping it and it doesn't mean I have the hots for the bag boy at the store.

[bkkcoh]

Originally Posted by chiefs4me

number 3 is a lie.....my damn hair is long and gets in my way all the time. I am constantly tossing and flipping it and it doesn't mean I have the hots for the bag boy at the store.

Atleast that is what you say to us on the board.

[Braincase]

"When she mentions how attractive her ankles would look on your shoulders, that's a pretty positive sign."

[badgirl]

Originally Posted by chiefs4me

number 3 is a lie.....my damn hair is long and gets in my way all the time. I am constantly tossing and flipping it and it doesn't mean I have the hots for the bag boy at the store.

try not to make direct eye contact with the bag boy while flipping your hair, cause that would mean you want him, you may glance if you can't help it, but don't hold eye contact, that is a true sign of interest.

[chiefs4me]

And about number 2.......what if she just wanted to lick her lips?

[Rain Man]

Back when I was single, I used to consider it a sign that she was attracted to me if she offered a discount.

[badgirl]

Originally Posted by chiefs4me

And about number 2.......what if she just wanted to lick her lips?

If you licked your lips while making eye contact the same applies

[Rain Man]

What if you lick your hair while making eye contact?

[chiefs4me]

Originally Posted by badgirl

try not to make direct eye contact with the bag boy while flipping your hair, cause that would mean you want him, you may glance if you can't help it, but don't hold eye contact, that is a true sign of interest.

I make eye contact with everyone......the eyes are the window to the soul. Making eye contact with someone does not mean you want to screw them.....Do you not make eye contact with guys at all badgirl?

[badgirl]

Originally Posted by chiefs4me

I make eye contact with everyone......the eyes are the window to the soul. Making eye contact with someone does not mean you want to screw them.....Do you not make eye contact with guys at all badgirl?

of course when I'm talking to them, but I'm not running my hands through my hair and licking my lips when I do it, that would give the wrong impression even if you didn't want them, men thinks with their dicks and if you were looking a guy in the eyes while licking your lips, you may not be thinking anything, but he probably is.

Well I'll edit this, if your attractive he probably is thinking something, if your a dog, he's probably not thinking anything, or wishing you'd stop.

[RaiderH8r]

Originally Posted by siberian khatru

I like it when the bottom of her feet are facing me.

I like it when the bottom of her feet are facing the ceiling...or the bottom of her chin is resting on deez nuts.

[badgirl]

Originally Posted by Rain Man

What if you lick your hair while making eye contact?

[4th and Long]

Hey. bad girl and chiefs4me. Instead of arguing what's NOT a sign of attraction, kindly stick to the topic and tell us what is it you women do that IS a sign we men should be looking for!

- 4th
*putting the train back on the tracks*