Life Signs of attraction - Page 14

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:03 AM

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.

So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

mcan · 04-27-2005, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Simplex3

All this from the guy that never hit the chick in his LAST avatar...

Nope, the problem there was that I hit TOO much. I didn't apply anything, I just went full out... She didn't turn me down, because she still wants to be friends, but that's all she wants. So, she took it all as a big joke to make herself feel more comfortable. I decided to try this approach right around the time that I took her down as my avatar. I've only spoken to her once since then, and I've already toned it down quite a bit.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

You really didn't address what I said at all. I don't care that you were on this site, I think that's fine. I'm saying that you should get out to bars, clubs, or whatever suits you as another means of meeting girls, too. Are you doing that?

No. Like I said, I didn't even sign up for the site...I'm not really making any effort to pursue the opposite sex in any manner or venue. And I'm fine with that, for now.

**Donger** · 04-27-2005, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by jcroft

Are you doing that?

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

No. Like I said, I didn't even sign up for the site...I'm not really making any effort to pursue the opposite sex in any manner or venue. And I'm fine with that, for now.

Man, but you need to get out, even if the opposite sex isnt your goal... take some friends out and have a good time...

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:27 PM

since this seems to be the happening spot, wanted you guys to know I posted some pics of some pretty hot women over on the other thread.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

Man, but you need to get out, even if the opposite sex isnt your goal... take some friends out and have a good time...

I have no friends.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

since this seems to be the happening spot, wanted you guys to know I posted some pics of some pretty hot women over on the other thread.

What do you think of my ex, badgirl?

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

What do you think of my ex, badgirl?

I said Hot women, not imaginary women.

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by gochiefs

I have no friends.

BS... Im sure you have Star War friends, from school, college.... Im sure you can find someone (1 or 2 people to hang out with)...

carlos3652 · 04-27-2005, 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by badgirl

I said Hot women, not imaginary women.

Badgirl/granny would hang out with you go chiefs... if stumpy approves...

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by badgirl

I said Hot women, not imaginary women.

She's real, I posted ze pics. She's not REALLY my ex, that was a joke.

chiefs4me · 04-27-2005, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ENDelt260

I just figure the girl's mentally deficient. Clearly she didn't recognize the god among men standing before her.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by carlos3652

BS... Im sure you have Star War friends, from school, college.... Im sure you can find someone (1 or 2 people to hang out with)...

Not since I moved.

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by carlos3652

Badgirl/granny would hang out with you go chiefs... if stumpy approves...

sure would, I love talking to guys, always have.

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gochiefs

She's real, I posted ze pics. She's not REALLY my ex, that was a joke.

where?

04-27-2005, 11:03 AM
Rain Man Seize life. Be an ermine. Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: My house Casino cash: $-452449 VARSITY	Signs of attraction Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you. http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428 Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you By Matt Christensen You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one. Clue #1: She’s all decked out What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman. Clue #2: She licks her lips What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.” Clue #3: She tosses her hair What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.” Clue #4: Her feet face you What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.” Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t. Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer. So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them. I'll start. 1. We keep adjusting our pants. 2. We take off our pants. 3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up. 4. We try to lick your lips.
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