Life Signs of attraction - Page 21

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:03 AM

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.

So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 09:26 PM

cheeeefs · 04-27-2005, 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gochiefs

Very well....flame away.

I have some pics of her as well...I don't know why I bothered talking to her, she was clearly out of my league.

http://jastermereel.homestead.com/files/chat.htm

I'll start with the fact that I'm no chick magnet but I do okay.

I met my girl online, we've been together two years now. She's one of the hottest women I know and is in law school with a lot of other perks, all in all a real great catch.

The one thing that struck me about your conversation is it was frikken BORING, that's why she didn't come back to talk to you. It doesn't matter what you talk about, it doesn't matter what you look like to her. Short of being a super-asshole, You can be a nerd, you can be ugly, you can be whatever the F* you wanna be, just embrace it and make fun of it if its funny, ignore it if its not. Just be fun, however you can be... crazy, silly, stupid, whatever... just make sure that she is laughing so much she cries, put a perma-smile on her face and it doesn't matter if she thinks you are a nerd or what not. The one thing that is guaranteed is that she'll come back for more, not necessarily because she wants to date you (at first) but because she genuinely has tons of fun just talking to you. Once that is accomplished, the rest all works out on its own.

Plus, don't make the focus of your conversation her looks or your looks. Don't ask for a pic right away, if she offers to send pics, by all means take a look so you can find out if your interested. However, don't ogle over them and don't critique them just make some honest observations that make her feel good about how you think she looks. make her smile and laugh and comfortable before you ever ask her to send pictures, for some people that's a really scary thing whether they are hot or not. If they are extremely unattractive to you, you've only wasted a few hours of your life... you waste that and more on the planet every night, might as well invest it into the possibility of getting laid (or building a relationship) whichever one you are angling for.

tk13 · 04-27-2005, 10:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ENDelt260

A wise man once told me that women are like bathroom tile.

Cold, wet, and slippery?

Hammock Parties · 04-27-2005, 10:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tk13

Cold, wet, and slippery?

No. You can piss on 'em and walk all over 'em.

**morphius** · 04-27-2005, 10:29 PM

So, what if you have caught a girl checking you out from head to toe when you run into her in the hallway more then once?

I find it gigglesome either way and will just pretend she is attracted to me as she is the only girl on my floor who is remotely attractive.

**Iowanian** · 04-27-2005, 10:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chiefs4me

idiot.....

Clam diving sukubus.

Given your abilities, I'd kindly recommend you find another insult target before I have to get the clamhammer out and wake up the Keyboard of doooooom.

jcroft · 04-27-2005, 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gochiefs

No. You can piss on 'em and walk all over 'em.

Actually, I think it was more like, "lay them right the first time, and you can walk all over them for the rest of your life."

**Iowanian** · 04-27-2005, 10:35 PM

Thats what the wise man said.

cheeeefs · 04-27-2005, 10:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Iowanian

Clam diving sukubus.

Given your abilities, I'd kindly recommend you find another insult target before I have to get the clamhammer out and wake up the Keyboard of doooooom.

Not to ruin your slam4me mojo, very entertaining indeed.

but it is "succubus"

carry on.

**Rausch** · 04-27-2005, 11:17 PM

Or you could learn to read microexpressions and a little psycology.

With a dash of common sense...

cheeeefs · 04-27-2005, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rausch

Or you could learn to read microexpressions and a little psycology.

With a dash of common sense...

I've consulted my "Fru3d_2.0...l0L!11!!"

and here is a short beginning list of online microexpressions

- I'm giving you a sad face because you said something negative, I couldn't really give a shit, but its so easy to pretend online.

lol - You think you're funny. You're the only one. I am crying inside.

MAO - I'm an unoriginal tramp whose skills in the field of articulation are limited, but I'm a "h0t A$$" cyberchick so ignore this shortcoming.

OMG I lUv U! - I'm an unoriginal tramp whose skills in the field of articulation are truly limited, but I'm a "h0t A$$" cyberchick so you will ignore this shortcoming

l33t sp34K Rox - I'm a dumb ****, shoot me.

Hammock Parties · 04-28-2005, 09:06 AM

Damn, no Kcchiefsman nuggets of wisdom?

Hammock Parties · 10-04-2008, 01:09 AM

This thread is good. Any stories, guys?

StcChief · 10-04-2008, 07:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jcroft

Actually, I think it was more like, "lay them right the first time, and you can walk all over them for the rest of your life."

no you must keep laying 'em right...

Fairplay · 10-04-2008, 08:39 AM

I remember in Psychology class one of the signs they said is if a girl legs are towards you and they are open. lol

Everyone laughed at that one.

04-27-2005, 11:03 AM
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