Question for business owners/managers/boss types

[Dr. Johnny Fever]

Originally Posted by HemiEd

Been down this road a lot.

The best advice is to never hire a friend or family. Don't ever sell anything to friends or family either.

That being said, I hired a very good close friend almost two years ago now,(hadn't done it in 30 years) to head up the sales of a new division we started.

He was broke, divorced and unemployed, due to this economy, his age, and lack of work ethic. But the guy is a pitbull, he could sell ice to eskimos.

I sacrificed the friendship almost immediately because it was the only way it was going to work. I quit socializing with him, quit bowling/golfing with him etc. I had to do this, he showed immediately that he would try and take advantage of it.

He has done a great job finally, but it has been brutal. Kept me up a lot of nights, but he is finally getting it.

He is now making some pretty good money also, but we will never be casual friends again, as long as we both work together.

Again... I didn't hire him. I became his boss after we were friends and worked together a while. Now I'm the one in the position to do this.

[HemiEd]

Originally Posted by beer me

Again... I didn't hire him. I became his boss after we were friends and worked together a while. Now I'm the one in the position to do this.

That is different, sorry. I haven't been in that position.

[Dr. Johnny Fever]

Originally Posted by HemiEd

That is different, sorry. I haven't been in that position.

It's cool... I didn't give any details in the beginning because I didn't intend for it to be about specifics, just looking for a general consences (sp) or feeling to either confirm or deny what I was thinking. I've gotten that now so I know I was thinking the right things. I know there's a lot of people in mangerial positions on here so I just wanted to bounce a general idea off them. Appreciate everyones input.