Life Signs of attraction - Page 3

mcan · 04-27-2005, 12:32 PM

Here's what...

The different "tells" are different for each type of girl. And there are several types...

Rating: How hot she is from 1-10
Self Consciousness: How she sees herself from 1-10

Most women fit into a 7/5 kinda mold. They are really about a 7. (average bell curve tops at 7) They see themselves as fives. So, they don't give off as many overt signals. They usually aren't any better then guys when it comes to flirting or being flirted with.

Then there are the 5/7 girls. These girls are often psycho. They really look worse than average, but they can't wait until they can bag some guy at a bar or randomly make out with someone to keep their "7" or "8" mentality. They have a TON of overt signals that actually might include humping your leg.

Then there are the 9/7 girls. These are the types that you want. They are ultra hot, but honestly believe that they are about average. These are the ones that, when they are interested give off the "signs" but they don't know they are doing it. They are subconsciously trying to "UP" their number because they think they are just 7s, and the extra primping is going to fool you or give them that little bit of extra something. They are rarely ever nervous when guys approach them. In fact, they get approached all the time. They will almost always have boyfriends though, and if you give them a compliment, you will get right into "lets be friends" land. What's odd is that if you wanna score points with this girl, you have to make her feel like a 7. EVERYBODY tells them they are a 9-10. But they believe they are a 7. A lot of guys think that making them feel like they are a 7 is being mean to them. But it's not, it's just being on THIER side.

THE 10/9s and 9/10s are very rare. These girls are often in the extremes. Some of them play so many games that you can't keep up. Others just know what they want and go get it without any games at all. Like Madonna, she just calls a guy and says "I want to meet you."

patteeu · 04-27-2005, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by chiefs4me

number 3 is a lie.....my damn hair is long and gets in my way all the time. I am constantly tossing and flipping it and it doesn't mean I have the hots for the bag boy at the store.

Maybe you are just a subconscous slut.

chiefs4me · 04-27-2005, 11:50 AM

And about number 2.......what if she just wanted to lick her lips?

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by chiefs4me

And about number 2.......what if she just wanted to lick her lips?

If you licked your lips while making eye contact the same applies

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:52 AM

Back when I was single, I used to consider it a sign that she was attracted to me if she offered a discount.

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:56 AM

What if you lick your hair while making eye contact?

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

What if you lick your hair while making eye contact?

4th and Long · 04-27-2005, 12:01 PM

Hey. bad girl and chiefs4me. Instead of arguing what's NOT a sign of attraction, kindly stick to the topic and tell us what is it you women do that IS a sign we men should be looking for!

- 4th
*putting the train back on the tracks*

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 4th and Long

Hey. bad girl and chiefs4me. Instead of arguing what's NOT a sign of attraction, kindly stick to the topic and tell us what is it you women do that IS a sign we men should be looking for!

- 4th
*putting the train back on the tracks*

I always just made eye contact, if you hold eye contact long enough and give them the right look, they will know what you want.

Biohazard · 04-27-2005, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

I always just made eye contact, if you hold eye contact long enough and give them the right look, they will know what you want.

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

patteeu · 04-27-2005, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

I think the rule is that if you exhibit more than one of the signs of attraction or if you exhibit one sign for an extended period, then it doesn't matter what your intention was, you have to put out anyway. Don't blame me, I'm not the one who makes the rules.

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

I think the rule is that if you exhibit more than one of the signs of attraction or if you exhibit one sign for an extended period, then it doesn't matter what your intention was, you have to put out anyway. Don't blame me, I'm not the one who makes the rules.

Well, by golly you should be.

**CosmicPal** · 04-27-2005, 12:20 PM

Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away.

That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?"

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

well that would be a different kind of look, your eyes will tell a man what you want and if they have a half a brain they will be able to pick up on it in no time.

**luv** · 04-27-2005, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

That's why girls don't go out alone. When we see a guy that catches our attention, we can turn to our friend and make sure we don't have anything on our face or in our teeth.

Another sign I would say is when a woman "breaks free" from the group of girlfriends that she's with. At least that's what I do, I'm under the impression a guy will approach you if you're not surrounded. Don't take my word for it though ladies, cuz when I do that, the guy usually comes up and asks me if my friend is available. lol

04-27-2005, 12:32 PM	#1
mcan Apr 13,1949 – Dec 15, 2011 Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Kansas City, MO Casino cash: $9996085	Here's what... The different "tells" are different for each type of girl. And there are several types... Rating: How hot she is from 1-10 Self Consciousness: How she sees herself from 1-10 Most women fit into a 7/5 kinda mold. They are really about a 7. (average bell curve tops at 7) They see themselves as fives. So, they don't give off as many overt signals. They usually aren't any better then guys when it comes to flirting or being flirted with. Then there are the 5/7 girls. These girls are often psycho. They really look worse than average, but they can't wait until they can bag some guy at a bar or randomly make out with someone to keep their "7" or "8" mentality. They have a TON of overt signals that actually might include humping your leg. Then there are the 9/7 girls. These are the types that you want. They are ultra hot, but honestly believe that they are about average. These are the ones that, when they are interested give off the "signs" but they don't know they are doing it. They are subconsciously trying to "UP" their number because they think they are just 7s, and the extra primping is going to fool you or give them that little bit of extra something. They are rarely ever nervous when guys approach them. In fact, they get approached all the time. They will almost always have boyfriends though, and if you give them a compliment, you will get right into "lets be friends" land. What's odd is that if you wanna score points with this girl, you have to make her feel like a 7. EVERYBODY tells them they are a 9-10. But they believe they are a 7. A lot of guys think that making them feel like they are a 7 is being mean to them. But it's not, it's just being on THIER side. THE 10/9s and 9/10s are very rare. These girls are often in the extremes. Some of them play so many games that you can't keep up. Others just know what they want and go get it without any games at all. Like Madonna, she just calls a guy and says "I want to meet you."
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04-27-2005, 11:50 AM	#3
chiefs4me Whatever.. Join Date: Sep 2004 Casino cash: $10004900	And about number 2.......what if she just wanted to lick her lips?
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4th and Long Sad Patrick Is Sad. :( Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In a house Casino cash: $6544925	Hey. bad girl and chiefs4me. Instead of arguing what's NOT a sign of attraction, kindly stick to the topic and tell us what is it you women do that IS a sign we men should be looking for! - 4th putting the train back on the tracks __________________
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04-27-2005, 12:20 PM	#13
CosmicPal Learn it. Know it. Live it. Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Casino cash: $10004900	Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away. That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?" __________________ - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - Four blessings upon my fellow planeteers: Older whiskey, younger women, faster horses, and more money.
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