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Old 03-02-2010, 04:29 PM  
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S.O. wearing ex's jewelry?

So I was curious about this. Do you think it's ok for your significant other to wear jewelry or clothing articles from their previous significant others? My girlfriend has a few very minor jewlery pieces that she has from past relationships. I don't really care that much, except for a necklace she has from a previous boyfriend that I really don't like, but it's an annoyance that I can deal with. Is there some form of etiquette on this topic? If she had a ton of it, then I would probably be a little more annoyed. I'm sure a lot of you have had similar issues, just curious if it bothered you or not.
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Old 03-02-2010, 04:48 PM   #16
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Old 03-02-2010, 04:50 PM   #17
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I think jewelry is a little different than clothing.
how so? they are both appearance accessories.


do women actually put an emotional attachment on jewelry? Guys only give that stuff so we can get laid or get the bitch to stop nagging us.
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Old 03-02-2010, 04:52 PM   #18
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how so? they are both appearance accessories.


do women actually put an emotional attachment on jewelry? Guys only give that stuff so we can get laid or get the bitch to stop nagging us.
yes, a lot of women do. Well, I would, simply because I RARELY get jewelry and it would mean something that he would pick it out for me like that.
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Old 03-02-2010, 04:53 PM   #19
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how so? they are both appearance accessories.


do women actually put an emotional attachment on jewelry? Guys only give that stuff so we can get laid or get the bitch to stop nagging us.
weeeell

I have a few things that used to belong to my Psycho. I would love to wear this warm ass ASU wrestling hoody thing. But it has his last name on the back and it would probably irritate the current love.

I kept the thing for my kids. I don't wear it for my love. I hold no more emotional value on it than that, but hell if I wear it.

I gave back most of our jewelry but the few pieces I still have are stored away also for my daughter. huh. Apparently I'm more pack rat than sentimentalist.
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Old 03-02-2010, 04:59 PM   #20
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it would mean something that he would pick it out for me like that.
but anything he gives you, he "picked out for you".


I guess this sheds some light on why women love cards so much. I see it as an overpriced generic peice of cardstock; she apparently goes the next 2 days with a mental gif of me wandering the isles of hallmark trying to find the perfect card just for her.
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:00 PM   #21
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:02 PM   #22
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Other than that, the key is the symbolism. Does she just think it's a necklace, or does she think it's a reminder of the deep and abiding love she once had for Percival or Chauncey or whatever his name is?
Yep. Only if is more than just a piece of jewelry to her does it become an issue.
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:02 PM   #23
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but anything he gives you, he "picked out for you".


I guess this sheds some light on why women love cards so much. I see it as an overpriced generic peice of cardstock; she apparently goes the next 2 days with a mental gif of me wandering the isles of hallmark trying to find the perfect card just for her.
I have a twinge of guilt if I'm even reading a book the ex gave me. So maybe I'm not a good one to ask. It could also be that my husband HATES my ex.
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:05 PM   #24
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Did she make a point of it that specific jewelry was from an ex?
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:08 PM   #26
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but anything he gives you, he "picked out for you".


I guess this sheds some light on why women love cards so much. I see it as an overpriced generic peice of cardstock; she apparently goes the next 2 days with a mental gif of me wandering the isles of hallmark trying to find the perfect card just for her.
It is rare for guys to spend the time to do this, so it is special when they do. I keep all the cards I get because they were picked out just for me.
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:20 PM   #27
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but anything he gives you, he "picked out for you".


I guess this sheds some light on why women love cards so much. I see it as an overpriced generic peice of cardstock; she apparently goes the next 2 days with a mental gif of me wandering the isles of hallmark trying to find the perfect card just for her.

The card itself isn't really the issue. It's the time I spend interviewing the card writer to be sure that he or she has the skill to capture the right sentiment, and then working with the writer on draft after draft to get the wording just right. And then looking over all of the proofs of the cover art, identifying the art that matches the concepts the writer is working on, and then working on various versions, adding a unicorn here or moving a flower there. Producing the card is easy compared to the work that I put in before it gets to that stage.
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:21 PM   #28
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Unless it's a pearl necklace, wouldn't be too worried about it, dude...
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I have a twinge of guilt if I'm even reading a book the ex gave me. So maybe I'm not a good one to ask. It could also be that my husband HATES my ex.
That doesn't surprise me at all, for reasons I can't begin to explain...
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:31 PM   #30
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Man up and tell her you don't care where it came from, it looks beautiful on her and that's all that matters. She'll respect you for that. Any other action, and you'll come off as insecure. You can't prevent her from having memories of another guy.

It's just stuff.
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