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Old 03-16-2013, 04:57 AM  
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So what am i suppose to say?
Apparently a family member is going to 'come out of the closet' to me in the near future.

I don't why she plans to tell me she's gay considering that she has never told me anything else about her sexuality. I assume it's some kind of cathartic form of self-expression to be herself etc,etc.

She's family, i love her and i want to be supportive, but to be honest i just want to keep the entire process as short as possible. So what the hell am i suppose to say?

i'm gay:

'ok ... good for you'

'whatever makes you happy'

'cool'

'can i watch?'

'is she hot?'

'anti-freeze'

'pics or it didn't happen'



seriously ... supportive, not condescending, not judgmental,not patronizing

what are you suppose to say?


(fyi if you prefer to respond privately, as PM is fine)


Thanks in Advance
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Old 03-16-2013, 11:26 AM   #76
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I'd say "And I'm a Jayhawk."
Then she'll shun you forever.
That's one option...
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Old 03-16-2013, 11:27 AM   #77
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I thinking maybe this, less chance of me screwing it up

Then all i have to do is just make sure that the hug doesn't come across as a sympathy hug or something, instead of a 'love you' hug.
Maybe go for self deprecating humor.

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Old 03-16-2013, 11:35 AM   #78
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Old 03-16-2013, 11:38 AM   #79
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Old 03-16-2013, 01:33 PM   #80
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Ask her why? and have her go into detail as to why she's decided to be gay.
You don't know many gay people do you.
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Old 03-16-2013, 01:38 PM   #81
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If you are gay then be gay. Whatever. Like someone else above said, are you suppose to throw a party or something?
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Old 03-16-2013, 01:41 PM   #82
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Old 03-16-2013, 01:42 PM   #83
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Apparently a family member is going to 'come out of the closet' to me in the near future.

I don't why she plans to tell me she's gay considering that she has never told me anything else about her sexuality. I assume it's some kind of cathartic form of self-expression to be herself etc,etc.

She's family, i love her and i want to be supportive, but to be honest i just want to keep the entire process as short as possible. So what the hell am i suppose to say?

i'm gay:

'ok ... good for you'

'whatever makes you happy'

'cool'

'can i watch?'

'is she hot?'

'anti-freeze'

'pics or it didn't happen'



seriously ... supportive, not condescending, not judgmental,not patronizing

what are you suppose to say?


(fyi if you prefer to respond privately, as PM is fine)


Thanks in Advance

To paraphrase you, "You're family, I love you and I want to be supportive." That should suffice.
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Old 03-16-2013, 01:43 PM   #84
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