Life When did you lose interest? - Page 10

MaxFects · 01-27-2009, 03:31 PM

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

KChiefsQT · 01-27-2009, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

I believe this is technically a question, so it should be followed with a "?"

A question which was left unanswered!!!!!

sedated · 01-27-2009, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by KChiefsQT

A question which was left unanswered!!!!!

as are most good questions.......

keg in kc · 01-27-2009, 10:31 PM

I read it as a statement rather than a question.

**BigRichard** · 01-28-2009, 02:18 PM

This thread is worthless without PICS!!!

Duck Dog · 01-28-2009, 02:22 PM

Giving up sex for Xbox? Dude, your problems go deep.

Jilly · 01-28-2009, 02:32 PM

in all honesty, what do you want? If you situation were perfect, what would it look like? Would she be different? would you? How often would you have sex and what would that sex entail?

sometimes, i think, people just are in different spots at different times....perhaps now she's at a high point, while you're not...it'll change

**Predarat** · 01-28-2009, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Pioli Zombie

2 years. yup, thats about right.

actually, thats pretty normal. After the "honeymoon" phase its not all about the sex anymore, then its about commitment, friendship, the simple things, the good stuff.

then kids come, fights start, you masterbate a lot, finally it all ends in tatters and you lose everything, now she betrays you, your "friends" turn on you, the people at your church tell you, this is wrong, you must stay together, and you scream at them "Its not me!! Shes the one that wants the divorce!!!! but it doesnt matter, they blame you anyway so they ignore you and when they start ignoring your kids thats the last straw, im leavin this place, and then the economy goes bad and you get the pink slip, now youve lost your marriage, youve lost your home, you lost your job, you lost your money, your kids are all confused and your hopes for them have been dashed and you even lost your place of worship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

.......oh wait........sorry, dude...........

what was the question?????

wow that sounds familiar! or most of it does anyways.

theorangelion · 01-28-2009, 06:51 PM

Wise man once said same ole hole gets old.

01-27-2009, 03:31 PM
MaxFects Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $10004900	When did you lose interest? I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women. I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?
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Jilly MVP Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Lee's Summit Casino cash: $9984925	in all honesty, what do you want? If you situation were perfect, what would it look like? Would she be different? would you? How often would you have sex and what would that sex entail? sometimes, i think, people just are in different spots at different times....perhaps now she's at a high point, while you're not...it'll change __________________ "In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight." — Ram Dass
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