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01-04-2011, 04:38 PM | #211 |
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ahhh funny
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01-04-2011, 05:42 PM | #212 |
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Didn't read all the pages, but if she told you she wants it to be done, show her what it's like. Be distant with her and don't let her see that it bothers you too much. If you just keep stickin around pourin out to her she won't realize anything about her own feelings. Get out and try to have fun and get your mind off it, if the distance doesn't bring her back, nothing will and it will end up being a good thing either way. Hang in there.
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01-04-2011, 07:02 PM | #213 |
Stay positive, don't give up
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Goodluck...if it's meant to be it will happen. Just leave her alone and do you. Independence is your best friend here, no games just focus on what you have control over. the feelings of wanting her back dont have to be ignored, be strong.
Seperation can be a good thing, trust me, you'll find out even more why you may have loved her and vice versa. If it doesn't work out you did your thing and moved forward. |
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01-04-2011, 08:05 PM | #214 |
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No that would be Meme, Luv would just say "i'm confused"
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01-04-2011, 08:07 PM | #215 |
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THIS
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01-04-2011, 08:12 PM | #216 |
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I do, the ex still hates me
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01-05-2011, 04:02 AM | #217 |
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She sited that we were too different, her answer in the end was that I wasn't the one. She thought I was but I'm not & she it's not fair to get me to be someone I'm not.
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01-05-2011, 04:11 AM | #218 | |
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Most of my hockey games are within an hours drive here in NYC & my home games are in Manhattan itself...., when we travel it's maybe once a month for Friday & Sat back for Sun type of ordeal so she was down for it..... Because we were very different she was trying to make me more into her interests & stuff. No doubt we were different, but opposites attract & that certainly was the case for me. Examples are she liked to try new things in everything as where I'm a bit more skeptical to try. Eating healthy is something she's big on that I do 50% of the time. But I exercise like crazy because of hockey & she's big on exercising. Etc etc.
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01-05-2011, 04:15 AM | #219 |
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Once again too, i know a few people read I'm going for my degree but I'm not 21 & 22. I know LUV asked how young I was to had a few relationships. I'm 26.
It sucks, 26 & restarting. She'll be 28 & restarting. I feel a bit better about the whole situation. if she comes back great & if not great too..... I won't do it because I'm not ready but I know for a fact there are two or three girls that would like to go out with me. So I know the grass is greener on the other side. I appreciate all the love & support. I really mean that & the fresh ideas everyone has expressed have been helpful. It's time to shake it off & make 2011 go from a bad start to better start & even better finish.
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Frankly, it sounds like you had a great time dude. It hurts, yeah but this one will pass fast. You'll have fond memories of this gal in no time at all. Now, live your life and when the one shows up you'll be in a better spot. |
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Definitely not scarred by no means, we did have a great time......it does hurt but I got to be strong & be ready to move on in life. There are things I need to address in my life & straighten out. This is my time to shine & do it.
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If she calls, tell her youre doing fine...and hang up. Period. Hit the gym daily. You got this.
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01-05-2011, 04:30 AM | #223 |
Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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I'm really sorry to hear this bro. These things can be HARD. Whatever you do don't bitch up. Don't beg and whine. Be strong my friend.
Nice, but firm. Be accepting of the things she has said, but don't say you're gonna change. Be self sufficient. Do not blow up her phone. The more you try to pull her back to you, the further you will push her away. It's 50/50 right now IMO. If it doesn't work out in the end. I'm really sorry, but we've all been there. I know I wanted to die as I laid face first in the carpet for about a month, and carried the pain for what seemed like forever. That taught me a lot, but I'm not going to lie. It still stings 9 years later. The wounds heal but the scars never go away. I don't sweat it though...... cause my new GF is WAY HOTTER, and is into more of the same shit that I am. Old GF used to give me shit about my Chiefs addiction. This GF buys me an Eric Berry jersey, and herself a little tight pink #7. Oh man I grab her by her ass, and throw he on the bed then I....*ahem*..... sorry. Seriously though, its not the end of the world, even though it feels like it. OK here comes the REALLY hard part. I'm not doing this to hurt you, but I know women. 99% chance she's met someone. And if you guys are under 25 like I think you are. This is probably the best thing that ever happened to you. If you were ready to break out the ring, her doing this now IS the best thing you could've hoped for. Live your life dude. By your own rules. Do what YOU want to do. Bang some strange. And just as a word of advice, make sure you've survived something seriously straining, and came out of it stronger before you break out the finger cuff. |
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I go to the gym daily now brother! I got to stay in shape for hockey.
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Keep doubting J MFing Houston
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Some chicks are spoiled, and cannot handle these things. And I hate to do this again, but she's been talking to someone, and that someone doesn't wear a skirt. I would bet anything on it. Cut bait, and find a new one. Or try out a few new ones. This one's not going to compromise, she has been compromised. A girl will try to change you till the end of time, unless she thinks she's found someone who is made of more pliable clay. All the things she is saying now, is creating the space she needs to not feel guilty about what she is doing/going to do. I'm really sorry man. Just be nice, and let her go. Just let her go. It's not your fault. She's not a liar or a bitch, or slut. These things happen to young people. They just do. |
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