When did you lose interest?

[MaxFects]

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

[Pioli Zombie]

Originally Posted by Katipan

I cheated on my ex-husband, but that was long after we stopped communicating or fornicating. So I always took the stance that it wasn't cheating. When he caught me somewhere I wasn't supposed to be, he took the opposite stance.

I've only lost that loving feeling once. And that was because he was a complete... well... fiasco.

Any other relationship ended because of other issues.

When you lose it. You lose it. Run.

can i call you?

[Sure-Oz]

You ask yourself....do you love her? Can you picture your life better with or without her? If not, gtfo and stop wasting her time.

Ive been with mine for 2 years and we are best friends, and i wouldn't trade her for anyone period. show her you care about her, the longer you ignore her the less you realize you are ****ing it up. Some women will put up with it, but others won't and will find someone that cares just as much about them as she does you. I have one of those, but i know other people that just settle and live with that bullshit. Treat her good man, esp if you love her.

[Demonpenz]

I was scrolling down and I could see that chicks head and I knew by the way the photo was shot what was next.

[Demonpenz]

Oh well that and there was a dude's trail to glory to the left of the screen

[Saulbadguy]

Ask her for a Ménage à trois. It can only end well, trust me.

[MaxFects]

So break up or have threesomes and anal haha, good stuff. I dont think one girl would be enough after two though.

[The Franchise]

You need to figure out why you aren't into sex that much anymore. Is it the actual sex or is it her. Try spicing things up.....if that doesn't work then you need to decide if you love her enough to stay with her.

[Brock]

Welcome to being married. Except you have the big advantage of being able to pack your shit and leave without consequence.

[Pioli Zombie]

Above all, take advice from the geniuses on Chiefs Planet.

I know if i need sound legal, financial, or relationship advice, the first place i would think of to go is Chiefs Planet.

btw, wasnt there a hairdresser in Wichita that was giving advice a couple of days ago???

[crazycoffey]

Originally Posted by MaxFects

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

sounds like you're going the right direction. Give her attention to get the spark back in it. One question, what if she's lost interest more than you? Not trying to be mean.

I've lost interest after a long time of feeling neglected in the relationship myself. First wife when she was hanging out with the neighbor too much. My second wife really made me feel emasculated. After five years I acted on feelings with a girl that made me feel more manly. of course now I'm divorced twice....

the answer to your question has to be "it's situational"

[Planetman]

Originally Posted by MaxFects

I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing.

I think if you analyze that sentence you'll find the source of your problem.

Put the damn toy in the closet and play with your woman instead. If you find yourself unable to do so, you may want to check yourself into Video Games Anonymous.

[CoMoChief]

IM AT WORK!!!!!!

[DeezNutz]

In college, I often lost interest when I pulled out.

But I often became invested in the situation again around 2:00 am the following night (morning).

As for help: Google "booze."

[Skip Towne]

I need more info. Does she give good BJ's?

[Pioli Zombie]

Originally Posted by CrazyCoffey

sounds like you're going the right direction. Give her attention to get the spark back in it. One question, what if she's lost interest more than you? Not trying to be mean.

I've lost interest after a long time of feeling neglected in the relationship myself. First wife when she was hanging out with the neighbor too much. My second wife really made me feel emasculated. After five years I acted on feelings with a girl that made me feel more manly. of course now I'm divorced twice....

the answer to your question has to be "it's situational"

ah, another "TWO-TIMER"

my first hung out too much with the assistant manager at the grocery store she worked at.
the second was like listening to Alec Baldwin's monologue in "Gengarry Glen Ross" for 17 years. Emasculated?? I'll let you know when i find those suckers. I think she kicked them out during the first Clinton Administration.

I need someone who will make me feel more respected and appreciated, someone who wont leave me feeling traumatised after lovemaking, someone who will raise my level of self esteem from what it has been.

I going to find an escort on backpage.com