Misc Kids fighting? - Page 3

kcxiv · 12-02-2009, 09:17 PM

My nephew is 11 and got into his first fight at school. His story goes like this. He was playing football at lunch and after they were done, he told one of the kids he had butter fingers.lol The kid punched him in the lip then my nephew went off on him and beat the kid up and made him cry. lol His dad didnt punish him due to the fact he didnt throw the first punch.

Anyways, how do you parents on here handle stuff? Since my work is offseason, he gets to spend tomorrow with his uncle lol OH ya, he got suspended for a day and a half, other kid got 3 for starting it.

kcxiv · 12-03-2009, 12:09 AM

lol my dad's policy when i was growing up is if you get hit, you better hit back, if not, he was going to beat my ass as well. lol

kcxiv · 12-03-2009, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

Here in Cali some schools have implimented the run and snitch policy. If you defend yourself u r automatically expelled. Been that way for awhile. There r several posters here at the planet who staunchly defend that policy like Irishgayhawk.

My nephew is in the 6th grade. The other boy got into more trouble cuase he threw the first punch. They told my nephew since he never has gotten into trouble and he didnt start it, that it was just a 1 day thing.

I am just proud he defended himself and beat that kid up. I live across the street from his school. He will come here if they try to jump him after. Lol i will beat up some little ass kids they try to jump my nephew. lol

**Tribal Warfare** · 12-03-2009, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by kcxiv

my nephew is hell of laid back. Its hard to even get him in a conversation. lol He's not all wild and crazy. He's a good kid. NOt the smartest kid out there, but he's a good kid and a football player. Lives and breathes football.

Okay, tell him to watch what he says unless it helps out his teammate, it's alright to defend ones self but you got to prevent in getting into those situations too. Tell him to be careful what he says to individuals so he can stay away from that type of conflict if it presents itself.

big nasty kcnut · 12-03-2009, 04:58 AM

Great job that kid deserve anything he want because if you let people pick on you then you'll be victimised the rest of your life. When iwas young i didn't fight cause i was afraid that people think i'm mean so i didn't fight back. Plus later on i knew if i fought back i won't stop cause i feel all my anger i held back for so would be released.

phisherman · 12-03-2009, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Tribal Warfare

Okay, tell him to watch what he says unless it helps out his teammate, it's alright to defend ones self but you got to prevent in getting into those situations too. Tell him to be careful what he says to individuals so he can stay away from that type of conflict if it presents itself.

this, 100%.

you really think that he just called the kid 'butter fingers'? i'm just assuming that isn't all that he said to the other kid. he probably mouthed off and got popped. big deal. though i agree that a kid should be able to defend himself, he's probably going to get into the same situation if he keeps running his mouth to other kids.

chiefs1111 · 12-03-2009, 08:05 AM

a day and a half??? Man when i was in school fighting was an automatic 10 day suspension no matter which person started it.

**BigRedChief** · 12-03-2009, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by ForeverChiefs58

yes, even if a kid gets punched in the face, never fights back and it is over, the both of them are suspended. Zero tolerance policy.

It's the mutual destruction hammer that schools use to keep fights from happening in the first place.

Dayze · 12-03-2009, 08:43 AM

the punishment for your kid is stupid.
self-defense = suspension. Yeah...that makes sense. Let's just all teach kids to not defend themselves so they can be a sheep the rest of their life.

I was in several fights in self-defense; one in particular in HS involved me beating the p*ss out of a gang-banger wanna be after he sucker punched me. he got expelled, I went back to class. I got home and my dad was lik e'Hey! Rocky". lol

The pussification of American continues.

Inspector · 12-03-2009, 08:47 AM

Heck, when I was a kid.......

Oh shit! Just realized I can't remember that far back.

**Iowanian** · 12-03-2009, 08:47 AM

Spend today teaching him how to duck a punch.....and counter.

burt · 12-03-2009, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BigRedChief

kids still fight, they just do it off school grounds.

And they still get into major trouble.

My 14 year old is being stalked by a verbal bully that constantly goads him on until my kid snaps.....get detention, as of yesterday, I am afraid that he will be suspended because of the last altercation in front of the school, OFF property.

I hope it will be remembered by the principal, that we talked about the "stalking". The other kid has to have an escort by an adult around school, because he has caused so much grief that if no escort, the kid will get pummeled by other kids(not mine). My kid has only had problems with him, but my kid keeps getting punished. I am about to pay his principal another visit......and it won't be pleasant for either of us!

CoMoChief · 12-03-2009, 08:59 AM

If you and some of your friends all get out of school suspension, its just a vacation. My friends used to come over to my place and swim when we beat the hell out of some losers down the street from us. They deserved it. Still to this day those morons won't look us in the eyes.

burt · 12-03-2009, 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

Spend today teaching him how to duck a punch.....and counter.

I have intentionally NOT taught my son anything about self defence. He is very immature and would use it aggressively....and be expelled from school.

**Iowanian** · 12-03-2009, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by CoMoChief

If you and some of your friends all get out of school suspension, its just a vacation. My friends used to come over to my place and swim when we beat the hell out of some losers down the street from us. They deserved it. Still to this day those morons won't look us in the eyes.

oh...so you're a pile-fighter. What a badass.

CoMoChief · 12-03-2009, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

oh...so you're a pile-fighter. What a badass.

no actually they had 4 people decided to jump me and a couple friends thinking they outnumbered us. I dont start shit, never have and don't see the point of it. These guys though they were in some gang, let's just say they barked up the wrong tree.

12-02-2009, 09:17 PM
kcxiv In Search of a Life Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Valley, Cali Casino cash: $8697996	Kids fighting? My nephew is 11 and got into his first fight at school. His story goes like this. He was playing football at lunch and after they were done, he told one of the kids he had butter fingers.lol The kid punched him in the lip then my nephew went off on him and beat the kid up and made him cry. lol His dad didnt punish him due to the fact he didnt throw the first punch. Anyways, how do you parents on here handle stuff? Since my work is offseason, he gets to spend tomorrow with his uncle lol OH ya, he got suspended for a day and a half, other kid got 3 for starting it.
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12-03-2009, 12:09 AM	#31
kcxiv In Search of a Life Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Valley, Cali Casino cash: $8697996	lol my dad's policy when i was growing up is if you get hit, you better hit back, if not, he was going to beat my ass as well. lol
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12-03-2009, 04:58 AM	#34
big nasty kcnut The pizza king of kansas Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Somewhere in the u.s.a. Casino cash: $-1999100	Great job that kid deserve anything he want because if you let people pick on you then you'll be victimised the rest of your life. When iwas young i didn't fight cause i was afraid that people think i'm mean so i didn't fight back. Plus later on i knew if i fought back i won't stop cause i feel all my anger i held back for so would be released. __________________ When it's grim, be the grim reaper and go get it. Adopt a chiefs Travis Kelce. You woke up the wrong mother****er!
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Dayze Resident Glue Sniffer Join Date: Nov 2003 Casino cash: $1959358	the punishment for your kid is stupid. self-defense = suspension. Yeah...that makes sense. Let's just all teach kids to not defend themselves so they can be a sheep the rest of their life. I was in several fights in self-defense; one in particular in HS involved me beating the pss out of a gang-banger wanna be after he sucker punched me. he got expelled, I went back to class. I got home and my dad was lik e'Hey! Rocky". lol The pussification of American continues. __________________ Life is 99% inspiration, 1% Perspiration, and 1% Attention to Detial. RIP & Godspeed:* Saccoppo Lonewolf Ed Fire Me Boy
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CoMoChief Mahomes Dynasty Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Parts Unknown Casino cash: $7712254	If you and some of your friends all get out of school suspension, its just a vacation. My friends used to come over to my place and swim when we beat the hell out of some losers down the street from us. They deserved it. Still to this day those morons won't look us in the eyes.
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