Life Did I do the right thing? - Page 4

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 02:31 AM

I feel like a dick about this. I texted in ex earlier, seeing what she was up too. (We usually talk atleast once a week). She always texts me first btw. I'm always real sweet to her, I still care about her but I'm trying my best to go forward with my life. She talks of how she wants to see me soon and what not. Her text reply was very short and made me feel like she was trying to act better than me...really pissed me off. Well, I just got a call...a bouncer from a local bar in her town she lives in. He was saying he doesn't know what to do, she's throwing up, real drunk and found her on the ground or something. He said he tried calling her best friend and she wouldn't answer so he called the last person she texted (which was me). She has been trying to tell me that she's grown up a lot..was starting to believe her too. Now, I answer and he askd if I'd come get her. I say doubtfall (2 hours apart). I was already pissed at her for her bitch message. So, I told him to call her mom and have her come get her. Long story short, her mom is a real bitch, treats her like shit...doesn't like to be woken up for stuff like this. Her mom is on her way to get her. She will regret all this in the morning. Did I do the right thing?
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Mecca · 07-26-2009, 05:55 PM

How can you not know what your sexual preference is, that's a line women use to bait guys.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

1. It still wasn't your responsibility. You can't save the world, and the sooner you learn that the happier you'll be.

2. Why on Earth would you feel stupid? You don't think it's your fault do you?

I don't know why I feel so stupid. I've told her how much she means to me and what not, only for her to tell me that. Everybody that knew her is saying I shouldn't feel stupid. Everybody warned me about her, telling me she had issues...I just didn't think they ran so deep.

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 07-26-2009, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

I don't know why I feel so stupid. I've told her how much she means to me and what not, only for her to tell me that. Everybody that knew her is saying I shouldn't feel stupid. Everybody warned me about her, telling me she had issues...I just didn't think they ran so deep.

Now that you know they do, there's no reason for you to feel stupid about anything.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PostRockPablo

LOL. Dude, she doesn't even know if she is a lesbian. It's just a cry for attention. Ignore said cry and run away.

My female boss (who doesnt really like her) thinks she just wants someone to love her and she'll take it from whoever because of how much unstable she is.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

Now that you know they do, there's no reason for you to feel stupid about anything.

I know I shouldn't think this...but I'm guessing she's extremely depressed and it may become too much for her.

Mecca · 07-26-2009, 06:03 PM

When you realize what someone is and you continue to put yourself in the spot anyway, that's when you become stupid.

**Rain Man** · 07-26-2009, 06:04 PM

With the advantage of experience, I think when you break up with someone, you break up with them and move on. Especially if they have alcohol issues. Don't take any more calls and don't send her any more messages and you'll be happier in the long run.

Valiant · 07-26-2009, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

I feel like a dick about this. I texted in ex earlier, seeing what she was up too. (We usually talk atleast once a week). She always texts me first btw. I'm always real sweet to her, I still care about her but I'm trying my best to go forward with my life. She talks of how she wants to see me soon and what not. Her text reply was very short and made me feel like she was trying to act better than me...really pissed me off. Well, I just got a call...a bouncer from a local bar in her town she lives in. He was saying he doesn't know what to do, she's throwing up, real drunk and found her on the ground or something. He said he tried calling her best friend and she wouldn't answer so he called the last person she texted (which was me). She has been trying to tell me that she's grown up a lot..was starting to believe her too. Now, I answer and he askd if I'd come get her. I say doubtfall (2 hours apart). I was already pissed at her for her bitch message. So, I told him to call her mom and have her come get her. Long story short, her mom is a real bitch, treats her like shit...doesn't like to be woken up for stuff like this. Her mom is on her way to get her. She will regret all this in the morning. Did I do the right thing?
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You are two hours away... You did the right thing..

Fairplay · 07-26-2009, 06:09 PM

Yep, break up and its over man. Especially the 2 hours away part seals the deal.

Time for her other friends to step up to the plate and help her.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

When you realize what someone is and you continue to put yourself in the spot anyway, that's when you become stupid.

That's why I'm putting a lot of effort into getting her away from me. I'm not about to be considered stupid by my friends.

Fairplay · 07-26-2009, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

That's why I'm putting a lot of effort into getting her away from me. I'm not about to be considered stupid by my friends.

Tell us if you get stupid about the situation on here so we can give you sh*t.

BWillie · 07-26-2009, 06:17 PM

The thought of you thinking about it means you are one of those typical "nice guys". You aren't going to get anywhere w/ that mindset. I've read the other threads about your woman, and I think you just need to tell her the way it is. Never let a woman control the relationship.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by BWillie007

The thought of you thinking about it means you are one of those typical "nice guys". You aren't going to get anywhere w/ that mindset. I've read the other threads about your woman, and I think you just need to tell her the way it is. Never let a woman control the relationship.

The other thread was about my ex fiance...same shit though.

And yes, you are correct. I am one of those nice guys and I'm trying to not give a shit about this. She needs mental support but shes not getting it from me.

**Dunit35** · 07-26-2009, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Fairplay

Tell us if you get stupid about the situation on here so we can give you sh*t.

I've got no problem with that. I've got plenty of people who will step forward.

LaChapelle · 07-26-2009, 06:33 PM

So.... what's her mother look like? She sounds fiesty.

07-26-2009, 02:31 AM
Dunit35 Keepin it Real Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Oklahoma Casino cash: $-2092955	Did I do the right thing? I feel like a dick about this. I texted in ex earlier, seeing what she was up too. (We usually talk atleast once a week). She always texts me first btw. I'm always real sweet to her, I still care about her but I'm trying my best to go forward with my life. She talks of how she wants to see me soon and what not. Her text reply was very short and made me feel like she was trying to act better than me...really pissed me off. Well, I just got a call...a bouncer from a local bar in her town she lives in. He was saying he doesn't know what to do, she's throwing up, real drunk and found her on the ground or something. He said he tried calling her best friend and she wouldn't answer so he called the last person she texted (which was me). She has been trying to tell me that she's grown up a lot..was starting to believe her too. Now, I answer and he askd if I'd come get her. I say doubtfall (2 hours apart). I was already pissed at her for her bitch message. So, I told him to call her mom and have her come get her. Long story short, her mom is a real bitch, treats her like shit...doesn't like to be woken up for stuff like this. Her mom is on her way to get her. She will regret all this in the morning. Did I do the right thing? Posted via Mobile Device
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BWillie Are you ready to Rumble? Join Date: Apr 2006 Casino cash: $-1238759	The thought of you thinking about it means you are one of those typical "nice guys". You aren't going to get anywhere w/ that mindset. I've read the other threads about your woman, and I think you just need to tell her the way it is. Never let a woman control the relationship.
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