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RedThat · 09-19-2009, 02:45 PM

Okay, Im considering enrolling into university in the future. Anyway, that is not the point of this thread, Im taking an English course to enroll into university for next year and there happens to be this really SMOKIN hot girl in my class.

I mean she is absolutely incredible. I haven't approached her or spoken to her yet, mind you Im kinda shy because she is smokin hot causing me to feel intimidated abit. We happen to sit at the opposite ends of the room diagonally from each other. And we happen to look at each other briefly time to time. The other day when we were in class we looked at each other I initiated a smile towards her, and she smiled right back at me, then, she looked downwards towards the ground bit her lip and smiled.

There happens to be a garbage can right close by the table where Im sitting. From time to time she'll get up make a trip to the garbage can to throw out her trash and smile at me. Another time the teacher was summarizing a short story in class, cracked a few jokes about it, I laughed out loud and when I did the smokin hot girl looked right at me, smiled and her eyes kinda bulged forward towards me as if they were glowing.

Now, I've only been in this class for 2 weeks and the teacher said once she is familiar with everyones names she will arrange our seats in new groups, thats means I'll be sitting with new people. Hopefully I'll get lucky where we'll both sit at the same table.

RedThat · 09-19-2009, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JimNasium

I'll not wait for your answer because I'm assuming you are. Look, it's time to shit or get off the pot. This girl has given you plenty of signs and you better act now before some other guy jumps all over her. I'd start by approaching her before class and introducing yourself. Find something that you have in common to talk about. Yesterday's lecture, the weather, homework....you get the picture. Women love men with confidence and you are going to have to suck it up and get over that shyness or this is not going to happen for you. If, during this initial conversation she is friendly and open then take a chance and say something to the effect of "we should get together sometime" or " why don't you let me give you a call?" If she's not overly friendly don't give up, she may just be shy herself or trying to play hard to get. Look for obvious signs such as open body language and playing with her hair. If that happens chances are she's into you. Finally, what's the worst that can happen? If she's not into you so what? There is more vagina than penis in this world, time to move on to the next one.

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

Fairplay · 09-19-2009, 05:00 PM

Don't go weird on her like that dude from Yale.

JimNasium · 09-19-2009, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

That's not your concern, it's hers and his. Just give it a go and stay away from the friend zone.

yeti · 09-19-2009, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

What kind of kiss...you should be able to tell. Dude she wants you to B your L on her T's.

JimNasium · 09-19-2009, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

Oh, and for the sake of the English teacher you didn't "seen her" you "saw her" or "encountered her."

RedThat · 09-19-2009, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JimNasium

Oh, and for the sake of the English teacher you didn't "seen her" you "saw her" or "encountered her."

Okay dude. Thanks

RedThat · 09-19-2009, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by yeti

What kind of kiss...you should be able to tell. Dude she wants you to B your L on her T's.

It was a kiss on the cheek. Like a simple peck.

JohnnyV13 · 09-19-2009, 05:07 PM

Red, don't think about it, who that other guy is, or how sunspots might affect her affection for you. Just go talk to her. If she likes you, she'll respond positively as long as you don't make an ass of yourself.

**Rain Man** · 09-19-2009, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by RedThat

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

Find out if she's from the Ozarks. That would help you rule out "cousin".

(And before anyone gives me trouble, I'm from the Ozarks.)

JimNasium · 09-19-2009, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

Find out if she's from the Ozarks. That would help you rule out "cousin".

(And before anyone gives me trouble, I'm from the Ozarks.)

So the fact that Jenny and I are cousins is a problem?

**Rain Man** · 09-19-2009, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by JimNasium

So the fact that Jenny and I are cousins is a problem?

It wasn't a problem for my parents, so I think you should be okay.

JimNasium · 09-19-2009, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

It wasn't a problem for my parents, so I think you should be okay.

Whew, you had me worried for a second. I just about called my dad....wait, or was he my uncle?

**gblowfish** · 09-19-2009, 07:14 PM

Start a casual conversation.
Make eye contact.
Smile.
Be calm.
Listen.
Answer every question she has with "I have a ten inch penis."
If she walks away, it wasn't to be.

Pioli Zombie · 09-19-2009, 07:16 PM

Just take it out.
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Saccopoo · 09-19-2009, 07:32 PM

Why? I mean, really - why? You are asking this group's opinion on what YOU should do regarding a girl that you find attractive? Are you reeruned?

Either you ask her out or you don't. Or she asks you out. Or she doesn't. That's about it. If you don't ask her out, and she doesn't ask you out, then you aren't ever going to go out. If you ask her out and she says no, it's about the same thing as you sitting here asking a bunch of drunken, delusional football junkies what you should do about the situation rather than being proactive in your own life. If she says yes, then you are on your way to a potential relationship that will probably end for you in heartbreak and despair and a non-reversible manic depressive personality, but that's all in your rosy future.

But seriously - WTF? It's these types of posts that make me truly wonder if we aren't just some fictitious, surrealistic characters in some mad gods feverish nightmare.

09-19-2009, 02:45 PM
RedThat Banned Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Earth Casino cash: $10004900	Hey folks Im in a situation, some thoughts would be appreciated....... Okay, Im considering enrolling into university in the future. Anyway, that is not the point of this thread, Im taking an English course to enroll into university for next year and there happens to be this really SMOKIN hot girl in my class. I mean she is absolutely incredible. I haven't approached her or spoken to her yet, mind you Im kinda shy because she is smokin hot causing me to feel intimidated abit. We happen to sit at the opposite ends of the room diagonally from each other. And we happen to look at each other briefly time to time. The other day when we were in class we looked at each other I initiated a smile towards her, and she smiled right back at me, then, she looked downwards towards the ground bit her lip and smiled. There happens to be a garbage can right close by the table where Im sitting. From time to time she'll get up make a trip to the garbage can to throw out her trash and smile at me. Another time the teacher was summarizing a short story in class, cracked a few jokes about it, I laughed out loud and when I did the smokin hot girl looked right at me, smiled and her eyes kinda bulged forward towards me as if they were glowing. Now, I've only been in this class for 2 weeks and the teacher said once she is familiar with everyones names she will arrange our seats in new groups, thats means I'll be sitting with new people. Hopefully I'll get lucky where we'll both sit at the same table.
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Fairplay A certain set of skills Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: texas Casino cash: $10026683 VARSITY	Don't go weird on her like that dude from Yale.
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JohnnyV13 Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Tucson AZ Casino cash: $5395200	Red, don't think about it, who that other guy is, or how sunspots might affect her affection for you. Just go talk to her. If she likes you, she'll respond positively as long as you don't make an ass of yourself.
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gblowfish Be Kind To Your Pets Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Glorious Independence, MO Casino cash: $16896178 VARSITY	Start a casual conversation. Make eye contact. Smile. Be calm. Listen. Answer every question she has with "I have a ten inch penis." If she walks away, it wasn't to be.
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Pioli Zombie Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: olathe,kansas Casino cash: $10004900	Just take it out. Posted via Mobile Device
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Saccopoo Kindness in words... Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Zion Casino cash: $10025483	Why? I mean, really - why? You are asking this group's opinion on what YOU should do regarding a girl that you find attractive? Are you reeruned? Either you ask her out or you don't. Or she asks you out. Or she doesn't. That's about it. If you don't ask her out, and she doesn't ask you out, then you aren't ever going to go out. If you ask her out and she says no, it's about the same thing as you sitting here asking a bunch of drunken, delusional football junkies what you should do about the situation rather than being proactive in your own life. If she says yes, then you are on your way to a potential relationship that will probably end for you in heartbreak and despair and a non-reversible manic depressive personality, but that's all in your rosy future. But seriously - WTF? It's these types of posts that make me truly wonder if we aren't just some fictitious, surrealistic characters in some mad gods feverish nightmare.
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