I think i need some advice - Page 5

|Zach| · 01-03-2006, 10:37 AM

Best of luck...lots of good advice here.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life

Instead of replying to the thread I think he's too busy sniffing the cocaine hiding under the keys

or maybe he wrote it during his tweaking phase and got busy doing 100 other things at the same time and forgot about the thread.

chagrin · 01-03-2006, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life

Instead of replying to the thread I think he's too busy sniffing the cocaine hiding under the keys

Or he's "cluckin" under the table

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life

Instead of replying to the thread I think he's too busy sniffing the cocaine hiding under the keys

He posted this thread at 3:24 am...he's probably asleep.

ChiefsFan4Life · 01-03-2006, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Herzig

He posted this thread at 3:24 am...he's probably passed out drunk and blaming the people who told him not to drink.

Fixed your post for you.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Herzig

He posted this thread at 3:24 am...he's probably asleep.

He probably run out to buy him some and forgot he was there, maybe he will show up for his party a little later today.

**QuikSsurfer** · 01-03-2006, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Ali Chi3fs

You are 23 years old, and have a several opportunities... while it may look bleak right now, it is all working according to plan. Years from now, you will be able to look back on this trying time in your life and see how it positively affected your path.

Around this age, I had a slice of humble pie, and had no car, no job, and had to move in with family. It sucked, but it motivated me to get back on top.

Drop the nose candy, that shit isnt healthy... I cant with a good conscience tell you to drop the herbals, because I partake occassionally myself. let me offer this tidbit...

Moderation is key... things like that make a good icing on the cake of life, just dont let the drugs become the cake.

Get yourself in a new set of surroundings... chances are, if you dont, you might find yourself in the same boat the Maurice Clarett is in...

Love yourself, and make every attempt to be happy with whatever decisions you make... you are NOT your past decisions... you are NOW HERE for a reason, and you are in a critical fork in the road of life... be happy with it, and move in the right direction. This is a valuable opportunity to get a grip on who you are, and who you want to become.

And always remember, not to place blame on anyone, but take responsibility for everything. It is all working according to plan... your life right now, is the result of your past actions... you want a different future, take responsibility and move in the direction you feel is best for you.

And be happy with yourself, and your decisions.

:-)

great reply. i don't think i'll ever be able to stop smoking FOR GOOD but I think I have taken care of the snowflake issue. Thank you again for the post. I think you may have triggered something.

**Saul Good** · 01-03-2006, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

great reply. i don't think i'll ever be able to stop smoking FOR GOOD but I think I have taken care of the snowflake issue. Thank you again for the post. I think you may have triggered something.

Sorry man, but the "moderation" thing doesn't work with addicts. Plus drug tests only have 2 results, positive or negative. There is no "only in moderation" result.

**QuikSsurfer** · 01-03-2006, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Psicosis

Of course, anyone advising you that the military may be your best bet should also add that there's a chance you could be shipped off and be placed into a situation where you may get your ass shot off or blown up or whatever awful things can happen in nasty places that military personnel are sometimes sent to.

Discipline isn't going to help you do better in life if you end up in a body bag, and as such, people should look at joining the military because it's something they feel strongly compelled to do, not simply because they just need some direction in their lives. Due to the potential consequences and commitments, it's something of a big decision.

rep

**Saul Good** · 01-03-2006, 11:41 AM

You're repping someone for giving you an excuse to not make something of yourself. You might as well rep someone for bashing Christianity also, thus giving you an excuse not to live with your grandparents. Let me give you some more excuses that aren't worth a damn.
You could get in a car crash and die on your way to class. College just isn't worth it.
You could work somewhere with asbestos. Employment just isn't worth it.
I could get hit by a bus tomorrow. I might as well get drunk and high in the meantime.

chagrin · 01-03-2006, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good

You're repping someone for giving you an excuse to not make something of yourself. You might as well rep someone for bashing Christianity also, thus giving you an excuse not to live with your grandparents. Let me give you some more excuses that aren't worth a damn.
You could get in a car crash and die on your way to class. College just isn't worth it.
You could work somewhere with asbestos. Employment just isn't worth it.
I could get hit by a bus tomorrow. I might as well get drunk and high in the meantime.

"rep"

No shit, he seemed to have skipped all the actual advice and has decided to use moderation as a method to turn around his life.

You can't talk sense to true addicts, either he is an addict or he is just another kid, getting high and on the edge of becoming a true addict.

I feel bad for you, but I hope if you are in fact an addict, you pull yourself together. If you are not an addict, but just get high too much, even better, it will be easier to stop.

badgirl · 01-03-2006, 11:53 AM

Thinking this Military thing through I have to say, the military IMO is something that has to be a part of you to go into it and make something of yourself, Just because someone who is a drug addict and needs a life and a kick in the ass wants to get straight isn't any reason for him to join the Military who has someones son, daughter, husband etc depending on him to get his back when he need it. I wouldn't want someone using the Military for rehab to be the one watching my loved ones back when bullets are flying. It has to be IN the person to change and stop looking for things to change it for him. First it was his parents, then grandparents, now the military? Its not the militarys duty to give him a life, if he isn't strong enough to change for himself, why the hell would he change for anything or anybody else? You need to take a real good look at where your life is headed and set your mind to change it. You will end up losing everything because of drugs and you want to blame all your hard times on someone else, blame the drug, its the drugs fault, but drug addicts will never ever blame anything on the drug.

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 11:55 AM

Take this test.

http://www.1-800-therapist.com/drug_problem.htm

Herzig · 01-03-2006, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

rep

I thought from your thread starter that you were looking for "Elders"...not someone younger than you that probably hasn't had much life experiences other than on Chiefsplanet.

**QuikSsurfer** · 01-03-2006, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

It sounds like ALL of your problems are self inflicted.
No sympathy here.

Lets work this out. You're an unmotivated drug addict, and you wonder why it might be possibly difficult to find gainful employment? You've been to college, for 5 YEARS!!! and now "college isn't for you". your mother is a "bad mother" but was paying for your car. Your grandparents aren't good enough to help you because they're people of faith.

Stop making excuses. Get your ass into rehab, finish the degree to go with that debt that someone has assumed for your 5 years of college and stop blaming your problems on your family.

Joining the military isn't even an option for a smackhead. All drug addicts have are excuses.

Unless you get off your ass and do somethign to improve your situation, enjoy your life as a construction laborer or welfare recipient. You're a loser by choice right now. Its one YOU can correct.

I don't think that i'm a loser at all. I could be content with having a construction job if it paid the bills and offered decent benefits. Thanks for the post though

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