What would you do if your neighbor.... - Page 5

**petegz28** · 01-09-2009, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by |Zach|

I enjoy all the prodding it took Pete to simply go over and talk to the guy.

Quite a pair of stones you have.

No wonder you are such a tough guy behind the keyboard.

GFY

jspchief · 01-09-2009, 03:52 PM

Are you the only neighbor that it bothers? If not, maybe you could try sending an anonymous letter explaining the situation. Mention that you felt it was best to ask politely before pursuing code enforcement.

Basically ask them as nicely as possible, while letting them know that there are further measures that can be taken if they decide to not a give a shit about the feelings of their neighbors.

kcxiv · 01-09-2009, 03:53 PM

First talk to them and explain. This is a must to do first. If this didit work. I honestly would pay some kids to break that shit one night. Hell, i used to do this kind of stuff when i was a kid. lol

Sure-Oz · 01-09-2009, 03:54 PM

Post pics of said light

**DeezNutz** · 01-09-2009, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz

Post pics of said light

This needs to happen.

**petegz28** · 01-09-2009, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

This needs to happen.

I ahve in other threads I wil dig them up later.. I just typed up a letter I am going to leave with them as I do not think they are home until later and I am going out, damn it!

**DeezNutz** · 01-09-2009, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by petegz28

I ahve in other threads I wil dig them up later.. I just typed up a letter I am going to leave with them as I do not think they are home until later and I am going out, damn it!

For the record, I wouldn't do this.

If they react negatively, they'll have the letter in front of the them to continue to incite them. Conversations are more quickly forgotten. Plus, in person they'll see that you're not trying to be an ass.

munkey · 01-09-2009, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by petegz28

I ahve in other threads I wil dig them up later.. I just typed up a letter I am going to leave with them as I do not think they are home until later and I am going out, damn it!

I wouldn't leave a letter....but that's just me...

**petegz28** · 01-09-2009, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by munkey

I wouldn't leave a letter....but that's just me...

Actually I just talked to the male of the house....some big black guy who stole another white woman...

They said they will take care of it so, we shall see. The letter was in case they were not home.

Johnny Vegas · 01-09-2009, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by petegz28

I ahve in other threads I wil dig them up later.. I just typed up a letter I am going to leave with them as I do not think they are home until later and I am going out, damn it!

thats whats wrong with the world today. Letters are the new way to confront problems. Does not work. Whats wrong with good old fashion face to face talk?

patteeu · 01-09-2009, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by petegz28

I ahve in other threads I wil dig them up later.. I just typed up a letter I am going to leave with them as I do not think they are home until later and I am going out, damn it!

Doing it in person, politely, with a smile on your face would have the greatest chance of success, imo.

**petegz28** · 01-09-2009, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

Doing it in person, politely, with a smile on your face would have the greatest chance of success, imo.

Well, we shall see.....

Trust me, when I saw the size of the guy, and I knew he was big but damn....I was nothing but smiles and nice...

sedated · 01-09-2009, 03:55 PM

Anyone who goes straight for legal action before simply expressing their level of annoyance is a pretty big douche in my book. And kind of a coward.

**TrebMaxx** · 01-09-2009, 03:56 PM

I would have gone and asked them politely if something could be worked out. Even now I would suggest to do the same before any charges are brought and if they react like jackass go through with the courts. If they respond favorably, maybe they just didn't realize how the light intruded on you, then call the city prosecutor's office and request to drop the compliant.

kepp · 01-09-2009, 04:29 PM

Yeah, I'm thinking you always have to try the civil approach first without making assumptions about their response. Try to work it out with them and if that doesn't work, you're absolutely entitled to get the law involved.

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