Life When did you lose interest? - Page 5

MaxFects · 01-27-2009, 03:31 PM

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

PastorMikH · 01-27-2009, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

How old are you? Guys lose libido as they age.

How would you know? You read that somewhere?

My grandfather told me after I was married, "You may lose the ability, but you never lose the desire."

EyePod · 01-27-2009, 07:03 PM

Stop jerking off. Really, I'm not kidding. It helps a lot. When you keep doing that it really kills the sex life.

Hammock Parties · 01-27-2009, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by PastorMikH

How would you know? You read that somewhere?

My grandfather told me after I was married, "You may lose the ability, but you never lose the desire."

Some guys do. Some don't.

Johnny Vegas · 01-27-2009, 07:05 PM

go to a strip club before you two have sex. That should get the juices flowing.

Extra Point · 01-27-2009, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

Some guys do. Some don't.

Thank you, Mr. Know-It-All. I'm sure Bullwinkle and Rocky's people will want an exclusive interview.

PastorMikH · 01-27-2009, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

Some guys do. Some don't.

I must admit, your vast array of knowledge over things you have little to no personal experience with seems to have no boundries whatsoever.

DTLB58 · 01-27-2009, 07:13 PM

We Will have been married 20 years this August and we lived together for 5 years before marrage and dated 5 years before that. So yah, we have been together a while.

What was the first thing I did when I came home from work tonight? I walked over to the stove where she was standing cooking supper and grabbed her ass.

We are doing great

It dosen't mean you don't have thoughts or fantasy's from time to time. That dosen't necesarily mean you want to cheat or don't love eachother anymore.

One thing I've always done, if we have a fight or disagreement I sleep on it. More times than not I change my mind or at least compromise.

Mecca · 01-27-2009, 07:15 PM

I think people lose interest because in the back of their minds they have that settlement fear and think 'oh no what if I meet someone better!"

**RNR** · 01-27-2009, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by PastorMikH

I must admit, your vast array of knowledge over things you have little to no personal experience with seems to have no boundries whatsoever.

pretty much!

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 01-27-2009, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by rad

That's called a "Southern Trespass".

After the Southern Trespass, I suggest going for the mouth hug.

BTW, someone is going to track down your girl and show her this thread. Just sayin'.

blueballs · 01-27-2009, 07:26 PM

Is the quiz at the bottom of the page
totally random

Mecca · 01-27-2009, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts

After the Southern Trespass, I suggest going for the mouth hug.

BTW, someone is going to track down your girl and show her this thread. Just sayin'.

If he doesn't have interest in having sex with her, I'll bite the bullet and step in like a stunt double.

Then he won't even have to stop playing Xbox.

KcFanInGA · 01-27-2009, 07:33 PM

I can speak from experience, because I have been married almost ten years. Got married when I was 19, and cheated on her, justifying it with saying I wasn't attracted to her. Loss of physical affection happens for every couple at some point. For me I felt it was coming in spurts. We talked and talked when she found out I had cheated, and through that I was able to work out they why of it all. I would say just tell her what is going on with the attraction issue. That is what we did and we are that much stronger for it. My wife is now dieting and working out because she wants to look her best for me. Just talk to her man. Hope this helps

**Mr. Flopnuts** · 01-27-2009, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by KcFanInGA

I can speak from experience, because I have been married almost ten years. Got married when I was 19, and cheated on her, justifying it with saying I wasn't attracted to her. Loss of physical affection happens for every couple at some point. For me I felt it was coming in spurts. We talked and talked when she found out I had cheated, and through that I was able to work out they why of it all. I would say just tell her what is going on with the attraction issue. That is what we did and we are that much stronger for it. My wife is now dieting and working out because she wants to look her best for me. Just talk to her man. Hope this helps

You're married to a fatty boombalatty huh? It's cool, my wife is too.

Over-Head · 01-27-2009, 07:35 PM

When they quit swallowing ditch em'

01-27-2009, 03:31 PM
MaxFects Starter Join Date: Oct 2007 Casino cash: $10004900	When did you lose interest? I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women. I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?
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KcFanInGA I just peed a little on my leg Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: GA Casino cash: $10004900	I can speak from experience, because I have been married almost ten years. Got married when I was 19, and cheated on her, justifying it with saying I wasn't attracted to her. Loss of physical affection happens for every couple at some point. For me I felt it was coming in spurts. We talked and talked when she found out I had cheated, and through that I was able to work out they why of it all. I would say just tell her what is going on with the attraction issue. That is what we did and we are that much stronger for it. My wife is now dieting and working out because she wants to look her best for me. Just talk to her man. Hope this helps
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