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qabbaan · 02-08-2012, 12:54 PM

Does anyone believe this is the first "date" she has been on?

God of Thunder · 02-08-2012, 01:04 PM

I also want to add, that all this shit happened Sunday night, and Monday morning, she sent this text.......

"I honestly care about you but not in the way you want. I just don't feel out connection anymore and haven't for awhile. I'm sorry I haven't been honest. You deserve better. Try to have fun this week and in Florida."

**Rain Man** · 02-08-2012, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

I also want to add, that all this shit happened Sunday night, and Monday morning, she sent this text.......

"I honestly care about you but not in the way you want. I just don't feel out connection anymore and haven't for awhile. I'm sorry I haven't been honest. You deserve better. Try to have fun this week and in Florida."

Say goodbye, Gracie.

Move on to the next chapter. You're done here, and as others have mentioned, be glad that it's happening without a bunch of lawyers. (No offense to the lawyers around here.)

God of Thunder · 02-08-2012, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

Say goodbye, Gracie.

Move on to the next chapter. You're done here, and as others have mentioned, be glad that it's happening without a bunch of lawyers. (No offense to the lawyers around here.)

So i'll never hear from her again?

**Rain Man** · 02-08-2012, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

So i'll never hear from her again?

Hopefully not.

And that's no offense to you or to her, but you're done with her. She's made that pretty clear. The ideal solution is the one mentioned earlier where you bump into her 20 years from now when you're happy and affluent and have a two-vaginaed wife with K-cup breasts, and when she asks how you're doing you say, "Couldn't be better!"

But yeah, a clean break is good in this type of situation. We've all been there.

tooge · 02-08-2012, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

I also want to add, that all this shit happened Sunday night, and Monday morning, she sent this text.......

"I honestly care about you but not in the way you want. I just don't feel out connection anymore and haven't for awhile. I'm sorry I haven't been honest. You deserve better. Try to have fun this week and in Florida."

Oooouuuuch! Let me translate for you. "I needed a guy when I was lonely to hang out with. You were there and it was, well, Ok. Then, I realized a really wanted a guy I could have lots of fun with and have sex like crazy. You weren't that guy. You wanted to be, but I found some other guys that were more fun to let treat me like a $40 **** doll. Soooo, even tho you want to be that guy, I'm gonna let you off easy and just tell you that I needed a break and go back to getting pummeled by other guys"

KCUnited · 02-08-2012, 03:37 PM

I know it hurts now, but the reality is that a year from now this chick will simply be fap memory material while your new girl is upstairs getting ready.

HMc · 02-08-2012, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by tooge

Oooouuuuch! Let me translate for you. "I needed a guy when I was lonely to hang out with. You were there and it was, well, Ok. Then, I realized a really wanted a guy I could have lots of fun with and have sex like crazy. You weren't that guy. You wanted to be, but I found some other guys that were more fun to let treat me like a $40 **** doll. Soooo, even tho you want to be that guy, I'm gonna let you off easy and just tell you that I needed a break and go back to getting pummeled by other guys"

Huh?

I think she's being pretty reasonable. It sounds like he's pushed her away with borderline stalkerish behaviour.

Tip: Girls don't like obsessive boys. At least not the ones worth having.

Mr. Laz · 02-08-2012, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by HMc

Huh?

I think she's being pretty reasonable. It sounds like he's pushed her away with borderline stalkerish behaviour.

Tip: Girls don't like obsessive boys. At least not the ones worth having.

it's true, the girl has got to need you before you let her see/know that you need her.

This is like rule #1 for dating

NEVER,EVER be needy until after you have her hooked ... EVER!!!

God of Thunder · 02-08-2012, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Laz

it's true, the girl has got to need you before you let her see/know that you need her.

This is like rule #1 for dating

NEVER,EVER be needy until after you have her hooked ... EVER!!!

You'd think after ONE AND A HALF YEARS i'd have her hooked........and like I said, I didn't keep tabs on her, until I caught her first lie.

YourMult · 02-08-2012, 01:12 PM

She's a skank, and you chose poorly. Find another one of the 3.5 billion women on Earth to date. At least none of them have used your sheets to wipe off another man's jizz.

Graystoke · 02-08-2012, 01:16 PM

They are all Bitches...except our Mom's.

ghak99 · 02-08-2012, 01:16 PM

You've already missed several opportunities to exit the situation with the cards falling in your favor, and might have screwed up your opportunity to get the revenge **** you desire. If you've been allowing yourself to get played all along you're screwed and might as well start licking your wounds and forgetting about her. If you've kept cool through this and have any kind of an upper hand.. DO NOT initiate contact with her in any way. Go silent, disappear, move on, work out, play cards, do whatever it is you do. If for some dumb ass reason you have contact with her mom again, leave the conversation with a subtle compliment to her daughter from a straight face... It'll get back to her.

We all know a cute "girl next door", so scoop her up and make a couple public appearances with her while remaining single. Break out the black book and work over a few of the good ones who know how to keep their mouth shut so you're not tempted to nut youself by getting drunk and calling your ex in the middle of the night. Give her enough time to cycle through the current loser, gain 10 pounds, and crash and burn. When your phone blows up a week, a month, or a year from now show no emotion but hit the buttons and pull the strings that'll land her on her knees. LEAVE ALL YOUR EMOTIONS OUT OF IT... from here on out its a business transaction, she just doesn't know it yet. Buy the dinner, the drinks, & go through the motions... wrap the night up with trying to put her head through the head board, PuttingIIHB, and painting her face. Leave absolutely nothing behind when you leave in the middle of the night. Play it out right and it'll happen more than once.

If you don't have the experience to make this play out right, learn from it and put the knowledge gained into play on the next one.

**Rain Man** · 02-08-2012, 01:19 PM

If I ever need someone to help clean up a murder scene, I'm thinking that ghak99 is my guy. He's got this stuff down.

vailpass · 02-08-2012, 01:23 PM

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02-08-2012, 01:04 PM	#2
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02-08-2012, 01:12 PM	#11
YourMult Banned Join Date: Dec 2011 Casino cash: $10004980	She's a skank, and you chose poorly. Find another one of the 3.5 billion women on Earth to date. At least none of them have used your sheets to wipe off another man's jizz.
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02-08-2012, 12:54 PM	#1
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02-08-2012, 01:16 PM	#13
ghak99 MVP Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Missouri Casino cash: $-1897750	You've already missed several opportunities to exit the situation with the cards falling in your favor, and might have screwed up your opportunity to get the revenge **** you desire. If you've been allowing yourself to get played all along you're screwed and might as well start licking your wounds and forgetting about her. If you've kept cool through this and have any kind of an upper hand.. DO NOT initiate contact with her in any way. Go silent, disappear, move on, work out, play cards, do whatever it is you do. If for some dumb ass reason you have contact with her mom again, leave the conversation with a subtle compliment to her daughter from a straight face... It'll get back to her. We all know a cute "girl next door", so scoop her up and make a couple public appearances with her while remaining single. Break out the black book and work over a few of the good ones who know how to keep their mouth shut so you're not tempted to nut youself by getting drunk and calling your ex in the middle of the night. Give her enough time to cycle through the current loser, gain 10 pounds, and crash and burn. When your phone blows up a week, a month, or a year from now show no emotion but hit the buttons and pull the strings that'll land her on her knees. LEAVE ALL YOUR EMOTIONS OUT OF IT... from here on out its a business transaction, she just doesn't know it yet. Buy the dinner, the drinks, & go through the motions... wrap the night up with trying to put her head through the head board, PuttingIIHB, and painting her face. Leave absolutely nothing behind when you leave in the middle of the night. Play it out right and it'll happen more than once. If you don't have the experience to make this play out right, learn from it and put the knowledge gained into play on the next one.
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