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Lono · 04-19-2010, 01:55 PM

So a few weeks ago my son was at his grandparents. They were cooking and, my son who is 4 likes to help peel potatoes. They give him a potatoe and a butter knife and he acts all big. He loves it and thinks he is really helping. He does this all the time. Well apparently he gets the bright idea to stab the potatoe. Not smart on his part I know, and he cuts his finger with the knife. They take him to the hospital thinking he will need stitches, they werent required, they used some glue. Anyway the Doctor was kind of a butthole from the very start. He comes in asking my son if his parents always let him play with knives and yatta yatta. He is telling him to stop crying or he will give away his easter basket (week before easter and they gave him one /shrug) Anyway this just makes him cry worse. My wife is really starting to get pissed now. Anyway he puts the glue on and leaves. Today my wife calls and says DFS is investigating the incident and we have 10 days to reply. I am more than irate. If I catch this doctor out, they will arrest me because i will beat him senseless.

**The Franchise** · 04-19-2010, 01:57 PM

The doctor told him to stop crying or he would take away his Easter basket?

If that happened....I would've requested another Dr and talked to the higher ups at the hospital.

**CrazyPhuD** · 04-19-2010, 01:58 PM

Do the american thing....sue..and no I'm not kidding.

Garcia Bronco · 04-19-2010, 02:01 PM

The guy sounds like a real asshole. Don't worry though. Karma has a way of working things out and the best revenge in life is living well.

soopamanluva · 04-19-2010, 02:05 PM

Complain to the hospital board about the doctor. Then threaten to sue the doc personally and the hospital for any fees you may come out of pocket for.What hospital was this?

Chiefnj2 · 04-19-2010, 02:07 PM

Your state should have a state licensing agency. Complain to them about the Dr's purposeful infliction of emotional distress on your child.

Lono · 04-19-2010, 02:08 PM

It was in West Plains, Mo.

**Gonzo** · 04-19-2010, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by soopamanluva

Complain to the hospital board about the doctor. Then threaten to sue the doc personally and the hospital for any fees you may come out of pocket for.What hospital was this?

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HotRoute · 04-19-2010, 02:12 PM

what a douch, maybe you caught him towards the end of his shift. some docs work some pretty screwed up hours

MikeMaslowski · 04-19-2010, 02:21 PM

Maybe you should stop stabbing your kids with butter knives.

On a serious note. Don't freak out if they come to your house. I promise you that they see some pretty horrible shit. My cousin is a social worker and she says some people lose their minds and can hardly speak when she comes. Don't let them push you around and keep being a good parent. Good luck.

Oh, and don't beat the doctor, they have really good lawyers.

MOhillbilly · 04-19-2010, 02:22 PM

NOTHINGS GONNA HAPPEN.

Chiefnj2 · 04-19-2010, 02:24 PM

The doc sounds like a first class dick, but he probably had an obligation to report the incident.

tooge · 04-19-2010, 02:26 PM

tell grandma and grandpa that 4 year olds dont need to "help" cut potatos with any knife. Then call hospital and tell them the doc you saw needs a few pointers in bedside manner. that is all.

**Bugeater** · 04-19-2010, 02:33 PM

You'd better hope the social workers aren't having a slow month, these fuggers have the potential to ruin your life.

**Bane** · 04-19-2010, 02:39 PM

Yes it happened to me and my wife also.My oldest was 4 at the time (11 now) and he ran across the floor and tried to jump on top of me but slid and hit the coffee table,and busted his head wide open.8 stitches later they started asking us all those stupid questions like do you watch them,are they left alone etc...Well 3 days later we get a call and a social worker stops by and grills us up and down about the shit,looks around blah blah blah.Well in the end the incident was unfound and we weren't accused of anything but it makes you wonder just how secure you are anymore just trying to be a good parent and letting them just be kids.
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Lono Starter Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Mo Casino cash: $9933836	Anyone ever had a DFS complaint against you? So a few weeks ago my son was at his grandparents. They were cooking and, my son who is 4 likes to help peel potatoes. They give him a potatoe and a butter knife and he acts all big. He loves it and thinks he is really helping. He does this all the time. Well apparently he gets the bright idea to stab the potatoe. Not smart on his part I know, and he cuts his finger with the knife. They take him to the hospital thinking he will need stitches, they werent required, they used some glue. Anyway the Doctor was kind of a butthole from the very start. He comes in asking my son if his parents always let him play with knives and yatta yatta. He is telling him to stop crying or he will give away his easter basket (week before easter and they gave him one /shrug) Anyway this just makes him cry worse. My wife is really starting to get pissed now. Anyway he puts the glue on and leaves. Today my wife calls and says DFS is investigating the incident and we have 10 days to reply. I am more than irate. If I catch this doctor out, they will arrest me because i will beat him senseless.
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04-19-2010, 02:08 PM	#7
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04-19-2010, 02:21 PM	#10
MikeMaslowski There's always next year. Join Date: Nov 2008 Casino cash: $10009290	Maybe you should stop stabbing your kids with butter knives. On a serious note. Don't freak out if they come to your house. I promise you that they see some pretty horrible shit. My cousin is a social worker and she says some people lose their minds and can hardly speak when she comes. Don't let them push you around and keep being a good parent. Good luck. Oh, and don't beat the doctor, they have really good lawyers.
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04-19-2010, 02:26 PM	#13
tooge MVP Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Liberty, MO Casino cash: $3984112	tell grandma and grandpa that 4 year olds dont need to "help" cut potatos with any knife. Then call hospital and tell them the doc you saw needs a few pointers in bedside manner. that is all.
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04-19-2010, 02:39 PM	#15
Bane C.H.I.E.F.S Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: **** your face Casino cash: $10005055	Yes it happened to me and my wife also.My oldest was 4 at the time (11 now) and he ran across the floor and tried to jump on top of me but slid and hit the coffee table,and busted his head wide open.8 stitches later they started asking us all those stupid questions like do you watch them,are they left alone etc...Well 3 days later we get a call and a social worker stops by and grills us up and down about the shit,looks around blah blah blah.Well in the end the incident was unfound and we weren't accused of anything but it makes you wonder just how secure you are anymore just trying to be a good parent and letting them just be kids. Posted via Mobile Device
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