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View Poll Results: Did you seek father's permission/blessing?
Yes, it is a tradition I wanted to keep 42 27.10%
Yes, it is a tradition I knew spouse's family wanted to keep 19 12.26%
No 78 50.32%
I've never proposed 16 10.32%
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Old 01-16-2013, 10:43 AM  
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Married members: Did you seek permission/blessing?

Just wondering what the practice/custom is.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:19 PM   #91
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No, her pops and my pops were deceased. We dated for a little while and she was about to be pushed away a long ways and I was her knight in shining armor rescuing her. True story dat.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:20 PM   #92
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wifes father wasnt around so i asked nobody.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:22 PM   #93
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No, her pops and my pops were deceased. We dated for a little while and she was about to be pushed away a long ways and I was her knight in shining armor rescuing her. True story dat.
So she's Asian?...
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:23 PM   #94
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wifes father wasnt around so i asked nobody.
So with no FIL I'm guessing you got along great with her kids?...
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:24 PM   #95
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my buddy just got married, and he ex was decessed. so he asked her 20 year old son.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:24 PM   #96
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:26 PM   #97
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Exactly.

You're not a father yet.

Imagine the best outcome of any woman you might want to date right now. She's perfect. You get married.

Then Imagine (yeah, I was like 25 before this hit me) that in this perfect life some half-whit-low-britches-tard has convinced your precious that he's the best thing since rock music on the radio.

He doesn't give a $3it if you like him either...
Are you talking about my hypothetical daughter at this point? If my daughter is at the point that she'd happily marry someone like that, I'd have already failed. Regardless, even if I did say no, that would only serve to create division between my daughter's family and me; she already loves this guy, and it's my job as her father to support her even if I don't like the guy.

Also, I never meant to create the impression that I don't care whether her dad/family like me or not - I care about that very much. I just don't see how asking for their blessing/permission would do anything to strengthen that relationship, unless it's something that they specifically want.

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Old 01-16-2013, 12:30 PM   #98
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Are you talking about my hypothetical daughter at this point? If my daughter is at the point that she'd happily marry someone like that, I'd have already failed. Regardless, even if I did say no, that would only serve to create division between my daughter's family and I; she already loves this guy, and it's my job to support her even if I don't like the guy.

Also, I never meant to create the impression that I don't care whether her dad/family like me or not - I care about that very much. I just don't see how asking for their blessing/permission would do anything to strengthen that relationship, unless it's something that they specifically want.
pretty much; if one is inclined to ask for the blessing, and they're nervous about the response being a 'no'.....then chances are (all things being equal) that you're doing/have done something that they find as worriesome.

I've probably worded it poorly, but you know what I mean i hope.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:32 PM   #99
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I did ask.

Must have forgot at the time that tradition is to ask the father because I ask both my wife's parents at the same time.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:33 PM   #100
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Then Imagine (yeah, I was like 25 before this hit me) that in this perfect life some half-whit-low-britches-tard has convinced your precious that he's the best thing since rock music on the radio.

He doesn't give a $3it if you like him either...
Still wouldn't be my decision. If I knew the guy was some lowlife, I might take that up with my daughter (not that I have one now) and try to smack some sense into her (uh, not literally), but in the end that's something she has to figure out. And like others have said, what if I said no? It's not like I could do anything to stop it.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:38 PM   #101
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Still wouldn't be my decision. If I knew the guy was some lowlife, I might take that up with my daughter (not that I have one now) and try to smack some sense into her (uh, not literally), but in the end that's something she has to figure out. And like others have said, what if I said no? It's not like I could do anything to stop it.
In this situation all you could do is let it happen and let her fall hard so she will learn and chose more wisely the next go around
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:41 PM   #102
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Although thru my observation most woman who have a loser b/f husband etc etc generally go for the same exact type once they drop the first one, women are strange creatures but it's cool cause they can get on facebook and complain about the same shit over and over again
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I know a chick from HS who is my age, 35, who has 5 kids, and has been divorced 4 times.
WTF.
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:43 PM   #104
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Old 01-16-2013, 12:44 PM   #105
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WTF.
5 kids with 4 men?
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