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**Buck** · 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

**Lumpy** · 03-26-2013, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by lewdog

???

That sounds like shit you do before you get married to make sure you are on the same page about finances and kids. Yikes!

Buck - Congrats!

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 06:55 PM

Man, I just wrote out this long ass post about stuff, but deleted it...

The question thing was really fun actually.

My roommate is mad though because she is his lifelong crush, lol. I don't care though, he has a girlfriend.

lcarus · 03-26-2013, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck

Naw...just relaxed, went out to the beach, ate dinner with a gorgeous view.

Went back to her place where she had a jar full of questions written on tiny pieces of paper that we asked and answered for each other. She's different than any girl I've ever known. It has me excited.

Congrats. Hopefully it all works out for you.

WV · 03-26-2013, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck

Man, I just wrote out this long ass post about stuff, but deleted it...

The question thing was really fun actually.

My roommate is mad though because she is his lifelong crush, lol. I don't care though, he has a girlfriend.

What's his girlfriend look like...tell him you'll exchange pictures!

Oh and congrats and stuff.

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by lcarus

Congrats. Hopefully it all works out for you.

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Originally Posted by Lumpy

Buck - Congrats!

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Originally Posted by WV

What's his girlfriend look like...tell him you'll exchange pictures!

Oh and congrats and stuff.

Thanks by the way.

I'm not attracted to his gf at all, not that she's fat or ugly or anything, just not my type.

This girl I'm seeing is 5'10 w/ a very nice body and a gorgeous face. Glad I'm tall.

lcarus · 03-26-2013, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck

Thanks by the way.

I'm not attracted to his gf at all, not that she's fat or ugly or anything, just not my type.

This girl I'm seeing is 5'10 w/ a very nice body and a gorgeous face. Glad I'm tall.

Tall is nice. How are the hands and feet? That's a deal breaker for me. I couldn't deal with man hands or man feet.

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by lcarus

Tall is nice. How are the hands and feet? That's a deal breaker for me. I couldn't deal with man hands or man feet.

I haven't paid attention to her feet, but I noticed she has small hands yesterday.

CHENZ A! · 03-26-2013, 07:11 PM

Do work, Buck! The jar-question thing actually sounds like an interesting icebreaker.

CHENZ A! · 03-26-2013, 07:12 PM

Also, if she's doing that shit with you, then she's definitely considering you for relationship material.

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by CHENZ A!

Do work, Buck! The jar-question thing actually sounds like an interesting icebreaker.

Yeah totally.

**lewdog** · 03-26-2013, 07:38 PM

Hey Buck, I'd be your boo.

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by lewdog

Hey Buck, I'd be your boo.

Deal.

Ecto-I · 03-26-2013, 08:39 PM

Ok...gonna throw this out there.

In my 29 years of life I've either been the guy that casually dates a lot of girls, but when I get into a relationship, its VERY fast. Like my last GF and I spent every day together after our first date.

So now, I've been dating a girl for about 3.5 weeks. We see each other like once or sometimes twice per week. We had sex for the first time last week. Now I really like this chick so I'm thinking "Yay! Ecto will get to see her like a lot more than once or twice per week!"

Au Contraire. She's still a bit aloof and confining me to the 1-2 hangouts per. So here's my question....

What is normal dating frequency for a 3.5 week relationship and for how long? I'm obviously used to very fast relationships which may not be normal or healthy which is why this feels soooo slow for me!

**Buck** · 03-26-2013, 08:44 PM

I don't think that's moving too slow for 3.5 weeks...but most of my relationships we were seeing each other 3-4 times a week at least at that point.

**luv** · 03-26-2013, 08:46 PM

What caused those other relationships to fail? I say space and boundaries are good and healthy at first. Don't think too much into and let it progress. It may be taking it a little longer for it to click with her. I'd say give it a few more weeks or months. If you're still uncomfortable with the pace, talk to her about it.

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03-03-2013, 12:50 PM
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $8329900	New Dating Megathread Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big. Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!
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03-26-2013, 06:55 PM	#302
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $8329900	Man, I just wrote out this long ass post about stuff, but deleted it... The question thing was really fun actually. My roommate is mad though because she is his lifelong crush, lol. I don't care though, he has a girlfriend.
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03-26-2013, 07:11 PM	#308
CHENZ A! pimping hoes + clocking a grip Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: KCMO Casino cash: $9977569	Do work, Buck! The jar-question thing actually sounds like an interesting icebreaker.
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03-26-2013, 07:12 PM	#309
CHENZ A! pimping hoes + clocking a grip Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: KCMO Casino cash: $9977569	Also, if she's doing that shit with you, then she's definitely considering you for relationship material.
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03-26-2013, 07:38 PM	#311
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03-26-2013, 08:39 PM	#313
Ecto-I The only way to Travel. Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: In the car Casino cash: $5373602	Ok...gonna throw this out there. In my 29 years of life I've either been the guy that casually dates a lot of girls, but when I get into a relationship, its VERY fast. Like my last GF and I spent every day together after our first date. So now, I've been dating a girl for about 3.5 weeks. We see each other like once or sometimes twice per week. We had sex for the first time last week. Now I really like this chick so I'm thinking "Yay! Ecto will get to see her like a lot more than once or twice per week!" Au Contraire. She's still a bit aloof and confining me to the 1-2 hangouts per. So here's my question.... What is normal dating frequency for a 3.5 week relationship and for how long? I'm obviously used to very fast relationships which may not be normal or healthy which is why this feels soooo slow for me!
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03-26-2013, 08:44 PM	#314
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $8329900	I don't think that's moving too slow for 3.5 weeks...but most of my relationships we were seeing each other 3-4 times a week at least at that point.
Posts: 44,562

03-26-2013, 08:46 PM	#315
luv MY LITTLE #15 Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Springfield, MO Casino cash: $6279600	What caused those other relationships to fail? I say space and boundaries are good and healthy at first. Don't think too much into and let it progress. It may be taking it a little longer for it to click with her. I'd say give it a few more weeks or months. If you're still uncomfortable with the pace, talk to her about it.
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