Most stoneless way you ever broke up with her/him

John_Locke · 07-17-2006, 07:44 AM

with my daughter's stoneless ex-boyfriend just got to wondering what is the worst you ever did in a break up

Thinking back, I just stopped calling a girl, but we were never serious

I think being a man and a face to face is the best way.

what is the worst you ever did?

greg63 · 07-17-2006, 07:47 AM

Over the phone, and that's only because there wasn't the internet at the time.

DJay23 · 07-17-2006, 07:50 AM

Drove my car off a bridge.

bkkcoh · 07-17-2006, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by DJay23

Drove my car off a bridge.

Thank you Mr. Kennedy!

Hog's Gone Fishin · 07-17-2006, 07:51 AM

I told one that if she wouldn't take it in the poop shoot then we were through!

sedated · 07-17-2006, 08:00 AM

I prefer to just not answer my phone.

eventually they get the idea, or they think you're dead.

BucEyedPea · 07-17-2006, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by sedated

I prefer to just not answer my phone.

eventually they get the idea, or they think you're dead.

No balls!

ck_IN · 07-17-2006, 08:12 AM

This from a woman who wanted her mom to do her dirty work?!!

BucEyedPea · 07-17-2006, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by ck_IN

This from a woman who wanted her mom to do her dirty work?!!

Yeah...it's called young and immature age 16/17 and that one was only after a few dates. I learned from it was more my point. I NEVER did it again. Some take correction and learn others never get any guidance.

ck_IN · 07-17-2006, 08:13 AM

My breakups were always straightforward. And they usually involved me obeying a restraining order. I'm not sure why that is. *shrug*

Sully · 07-17-2006, 08:15 AM

I had only gone out with this girl a few times.
We were at Cool Crest, and about 10 minutes in, I had decided that trying one more date with her was too much. So I called a buddy to come show up, told her I was going to the bathroom, and left.

R&GHomer · 07-17-2006, 08:15 AM

When I was still in the military I told a woman that I was going to Cuba to guard some refugees for six months. I told her I would call her when I got back, but never did. Pretty spineless I know, but effective.

BucEyedPea · 07-17-2006, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by John_Locke

with my daughter's stoneless ex-boyfriend just got to wondering what is the worst you ever did in a break up

Thinking back, I just stopped calling a girl, but we were never serious

I think being a man and a face to face is the best way.

what is the worst you ever did?

For a girl it's a bit different as the guy usually is the one who still calls more than the other way around. Just not always.

So if a guy/girl initiates a call to go out, and there is no relationship yet ( say no dates yet or just a few casual non-commital ones) the person receiving the call has to say they are not interested in pursuing anything further.

If a guy asks a girl out and does not want to pursue anything further after one or a few dates ...he need not feel obligated to call again. However, if she calls again he'd have to do say he's no longer interested just as a girl would.I think over the phone is good enough here.

Now if there's been a prolonged period of dating like 6 or 7 months that was more than just casual dating: gifts, rings etc. I think it should be face to face.

That's how I did it at age 16 and early twenties.

Some guys don't take it though. So I had to throw one out of my apartment once and he slept in his car below my window in the parking lot. Another shook me and later stalked me for a few years...only I never knew it until I graduated college when I received a letter at my Mom's house telling me this and all the places I had been. It was all accurate. But he never harmed me. I was 17 at the time.

One a 2nd year of college fiance...wanted to date another chic for awhile ( actually was doing it depsite being engaged). I had a very hard time with that. So I broke it off with him...but he came back 9 months later as he changed his mind about her. In the meantime I lost a lot of weight from depression down to 93 lbs from 113. I cried my eyes out.

chagrin · 07-17-2006, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by BucEyedPea

For a girl it's a bit different as the guy usually is the one who still calls more than the other way around. Just not always.

So if a guy/girl initiates a call to go out, and there is no relationship yet ( say no dates yet or just a few casual non-commital ones) the person receiving the call has to say they are not interested in pursuing anything further.

If a guy asks a girl out and does not want to pursue anything further after one or a few dates ...he need not feel obligated to call again. However, if she calls again he'd have to do say he's no longer interested just as a girl would.I think over the phone is good enough here.

Now if there's been a prolonged period of dating like 6 or 7 months that was more than just casual dating: gifts, rings etc. I think it should be face to face.

That's how I did it at age 16 and early twenties.

Some guys don't take it though. So I had to throw one out of my apartment once and he slept in his car below my window in the parking lot. Another shook me and later stalked me for a few years...only I never knew it until I graduated college when I received a letter at my Mom's house telling me this and all the places I had been. It was all accurate. But he never harmed me. I was 17 at the time.

One a 2nd year of college fiance...wanted to date another chic for awhile ( actually was doing it depsite being engaged). I had a very hard time with that. So I broke it off with him...but he came back 9 months later as he changed his mind about her. In the meantime I lost a lot of weight from depression down to 93 lbs from 113. I cried my eyes out.

You're always the victim, aren't you?

**Iowanian** · 07-17-2006, 08:34 AM

Something tells me BEP has been dumped alot.

07-17-2006, 07:44 AM	Topic Starter
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07-17-2006, 07:47 AM	#2
greg63 Homer go crazy!!! Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: SE Kansas Casino cash: $9324990	Over the phone, and that's only because there wasn't the internet at the time. __________________
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07-17-2006, 07:50 AM	#3
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07-17-2006, 08:12 AM	#8
ck_IN Feels so good. Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $10004900	This from a woman who wanted her mom to do her dirty work?!! __________________ As sweet as Tupelo Honey
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07-17-2006, 08:13 AM	#10
ck_IN Feels so good. Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $10004900	My breakups were always straightforward. And they usually involved me obeying a restraining order. I'm not sure why that is. shrug __________________ As sweet as Tupelo Honey
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07-17-2006, 08:15 AM	#11
Sully It Goes On Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Lees Summit Casino cash: $10026331	I had only gone out with this girl a few times. We were at Cool Crest, and about 10 minutes in, I had decided that trying one more date with her was too much. So I called a buddy to come show up, told her I was going to the bathroom, and left. __________________ "And I don't wish that girl any bad luck," he said, "but I hope she gets hit with a car." - Tommy Lasorda
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07-17-2006, 08:15 AM	#12
R&GHomer Veteran Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Olathe Casino cash: $10004900	When I was still in the military I told a woman that I was going to Cuba to guard some refugees for six months. I told her I would call her when I got back, but never did. Pretty spineless I know, but effective. __________________ Tod Haley: "I just want to coach well, have our team play well and make this city proud of us again."
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07-17-2006, 08:34 AM	#15
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